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I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to feel secure anymore. I just feel like I'm being annoying if I send a text to Wolf. But I am feeling a lack of support from him. I'm trying really hard to be positive. It's not easy when I feel like I have no connection at all. He's just...

These days I'm trying really hard not to feel like a huge failure. While Wolf and I agreed we are trying to make things work, he has been really stressed out at work. He had a big presentation to do at a conference in Chicago. He said that he really didn't have time or head space to think about...

The bird was probably a lot less angry before it was put in the box 😜

Claire, when you talk about things it's like you are plucking thoughts right out of my head. I so feel you on so many of the things you are saying.

If Hannah is in college that means that, really, she is an adult person. She can choose who to remain close to for herself. Even if you don't maintain a relationship with her mother doesn't mean you can't maintain a relationship with her. I have a friend, Dusty, that has a friendship with her...

I'm trying to figure out how we rebuild trust with each other. I really don't know. I am seeing Wolf today and I know that we will talk about things (as if that is a surprise). I want to talk to him about being open and honest with me. Which is something he revealed to me that he wasn't being...

Thanks for the message, I've been thinking about you recently. How are you doing?

Our talk went ok. We've decided not to break up but we are starting over. We really didn't build a solid foundation of friendship and communication in the beginning of our relationship and so now we are going to do that. Sex is off the table for now (well barely hanging on to the side of the...

Lol! I get messages like that all the time!

Thanks for your replies. I'm just trying to get through the rest of today without losing it too much. I hope that we can work something out but I feel like his mind is already made up and that's that. I don't really know though because I haven't talked to him in 2 days. I appreciate the support

The hardest part is that the person I want to go to for comfort and to talk to about my situation is the person on the other side of the situation. I feel like I'm going to lose my best friend and I can't do anything to stop it. The pain is unbearable

Well tonight Wolf broke up with me. I'm heartbroken. I'm devastated. I'm at a loss. He came over to my place last night to make me dinner and take care of me because I've been sick. We went to my bed to cuddle and I thought it would lead to sex. Instead it lead to us both feeling awful and...

I totally hear you on feeling embarrassment. That's how I feel when I've had to go to the doctor for meds to control my depression. However, from my point of view, you have nothing to be embarrassed about. Getting help IS being strong and proactive. Society tells us that we should be able to...

You have realised that, even if you love him, your lives are not compatible right now. I'm sorry that you are going through this but I think you are strong for finally admitting that this relationship is not making you happy. It's sad, it's unfortunate, it hurts but it's not a failure.

Hahaha! This tickled my funny bone 😃

I agree, Kevin. People are always saying to do a search on the site if they have questions. This person did and then someone complains. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Awww Magdyln, I'm sorry you're struggling. You seem so together and ok with what's going on that I don't ever feel like you need the communication, but I should remember that we all need validations from time to time. It sucks greatly that punk is incommunicado but especially since it is a...

I'm glad what I said caused you to think. It's just my very limited experience. I hope it does help you in your relationships.

This is what really stood out to me in your post. I have never thought in these terms before when it comes to relationships. I try to think in terms of "will I be happy doing this?" "will this cause harm to my existing relationship?" Having the metric of "what would I risk?" is a pretty big...

When my partner and I started overnights I had trouble falling asleep. More so at my place than his for some reason. Now that we've been sleeping together for a bit longer I don't really have an issue sleeping at all. It could be that you're just getting used to different sleeping rhythms of...