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    Curious, but it's hitting hard

    Thank you for your reply. It was a really good read. There are definitely some good points to think about. Also, thanks for the reading suggestions. I actually ordered the "Polysecure" book yesterday and it should be arriving today. So looking forward to having a read of that.
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    Curious, but it's hitting hard

    Thank you for your reply. I must admit the above was not something I was expecting. However, it was very insightful. I think you are right. I think that since monogamy is all I have ever known then, yes, "my" partner rings very true. The replies have I received thus far are most definitely...
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    Question for those in a monogamous relationship when ENM was first floated as an idea

    I am the monogamist who was on the receiving end of the conversation. Growing up, anything different from monogamy was considered "weird." When that topic was brought up it was terrible for me. I had/have so many emotions and insecurities that I didn't have to deal with until polyamory came...
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    Curious, but it's hitting hard

    Thanks for your reply. As sad as it sounds, I am glad I am not the only one with this issue. It somehow makes me feel better knowing it's not just me.
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    Curious, but it's hitting hard

    Thanks for the reply. Your list is very accurate. I think my main hang-ups are: This one also includes a better, fitter body. These two points are the primary things going through my mind. As bad as this may sound, I don't feel any threat from females. I know this all boils down to me...
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    Curious, but it's hitting hard

    Hi All, I'm new here, and looking for some advice. I am in no doubt that the things I am going to ask have been asked 1000 times before, but I still have to ask them. So... My partner and I have been together for 12 years, me (M) partner (F). My partner is openly bisexual. I am unsure. My...
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