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Wife here.... Wow that has to be one of the best responses we've had. Thank you GalaGirl. those are almost precisely the things that we are doing.

Thank you...we have backed off on the sexual front. We are working with her as much as she will allow us to continue to build a solid friendship.

Wife here Just because we confer on our posts and texts, doesn't signify that we have a hive mind. We take great offense to the assumptions that we are looking for just a sexual third. NOT THE CASE. Ever thought that we might feel as though the splintered sexual/emotional opinions that we...

Wife here.... Maybe just maybe CONTEXT was not understood. At no point have we called her stupid or silly - tho I can see where you might be confused, Mags- especially if you haven't read ALL of our posts. Also here, have you surfed over to the newest thread about Poly and Mental Health...

D - You've been married a year and have children but have been together longer? How long have you been together?

D - Wow, WhatHappened, that's something else. I'll have to research some older posts. Kevin, I got you now for sure and couldn't agree more. Scaredandconfused, I'd have to agree with most of this assesment. K and I have been together for 15 years now and have never had a joint account. Not...

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D here OK, so what else would you recommend? Would it be a more acceptable situation if this was more of a V relationship between the women that then would only occasionally include the man? I think I would agree that this is a situation that needs great caution. There are young children...

D here. There is so much to this now that we are feeling quite overwhelmed. We are taking great pains to express ourselves as clearly as possible. People here, where it should be safe to express oneself without fear of judgment, seem to be incapable of reading through posts, and pick and...

D - Kevin, I seriously doubt that gf has her daughter on a Sunday since the kids were on spring break last week on go back to school today. So that leaves two other possibilities, either the ex was over again (he just keeps coming over and gf let's him in) or she's upset with us for some odd...

D - Gf claims she's done, and we went over and rescued her weds night after she had a blowup with him. She was convincing about wanting it to end and K and I were both biting our lips to keep from saying "right here stupid" everytime she mentioned things that she wanted in her life that we're...

D here, welcome. We are new here too and in possibly a similar position. We are going to be watching to see where you go with this too. Good luck D/hubby to K

D - Kevin, the job is seasonal and has no possibilities of advancement since it is at a bicycle shop and not some sort of corporate situation. Len51, I respect your point of view however, considering your marriage is nearly as old as I am I have to also consider we are of diferent generations...

My mistake D/hubby I'm sorry for not reading all the rules etc. As I've said previously, my wife K is more familiar with forums than I am, and that was something we've not come across before now. Considering time to be of the essence here, I took it upon myself to create this account. It is my...

I've all but decided not to take the job. It would be more for the experience than anything else. I've been employed in a dike (bike, sorry had to leave the typo for a laugh) shop for the last five years before the shop closed. It would be a difficult time to leave everyone behind although I'd...

Wife here...... GF is currently already divorced from her child's father. The "ex" is a long term relationship, which was almost a marriage- since that failed, she has been still seeing him, with the intention of keeping things "normal" for her daughter (ex was almost step dad); on an even...

Hubby says - "yes!" to all I'm quite sure we will be able to voice our feelings better as we figure this out better......

Kevin, I'm working off my phone and will try to remember and address your questions as best I can. We all live in northeast Florida and I've been offered a 5 month seasonal job on Martha's Vineyard. If I do take it I'll miss both my son's 13th and gfs daughter's 15th birthdays. That just...

H- whereas that is a justifiable concern, it is one of the least things that we feel is or should be of any true concern being as there are many more skeletons in the gfs closet. Nothing dangerous or illegal to worry about though. As for our family interaction, we have all been together in a...

we're new here and asking for your insight This is going to be a short start because I'm on my tablet and the battery is going fast. Let's begin by saying the wife and I have found ourselves in a triad and we're cool with that. Our GF has issues that we are trying to help with as much as she...