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hi Only advice I can offer is just make sure he really is okay with it all because sometimes they're ok with it in theory and not so much in practice.

:) I envy this. I'm glad things have been so good for you guys. :)

Ha Well there you go. :)

So I figured I should say hello. I'm female in my 30's, mom and wife. Married nearly 10 years, together even longer. Hubby and I recently talked about opening up our marriage. I brought the conversation to him after realizing I had some feelings for another guy and also due to a conversation my...

:) Something I might be able to actually help with, ha. As a mom you're always going to feel guilty no matter what. I don't know how your relationship is with your daughter, but for the most part I remember being 17 and while I loved my mom dearly I really didn't want to know much about her...

thanks Thanks Evie. I think you are too kind. I'm definitely not brave and I also don't know when to leave well enough alone. Possibly may have made things worse. It's ok though. Pretty sure I can manage to stay away if need be. I'll be crushed because I really like Trucker, but I don't want...

Been shaky I've been shaky all day. Haven't heard anything back and not sure I want to. I think I'm more freaked out about how I went about this. I did talk to hubby earlier and he was a bit mad, but that had more to do with his concern of things being awkward for the two men. I don't know...

So I did it. I told Trucker (using this for his name) I liked him and that I wanted to get to know him better. I chickened out and did it by text. He hasn't said anything at this point. At least not to me. For all I know he may well have talked to hubby, since they know each other. Hubby hasn't...

Thanks I haven't gotten into the expressing my interest part, but thanks. :) I think this will be the week. Gonna put on my big girl panties. Tink

hi Hi Shy, Your story sounds similar to mine. Hope everything works out well for you. Tink

😊 Yes. I was thinking something along those lines. Thank you. 😊 Once I figure out the when I think I will be ok. In the meantime I'm still trying to gauge where he might fall on the idea. Tink

yes Yes, I do these things too. I've always been a bit of a flirty person. Like someone who mentioned before, it doesn't matter who. I've found it's a bit different now that I want to express interest in engaging a new relationship. Tink

oh my Oh my. :) Well I have to be honest, this isn't just an open up to a sexual thing. I really like this guy as far as I know him at this point. I want to know him more. I'm more worried about what his whole view on the dating a married woman thing would stand, especially because him and my...

sorry Sorry. I should have been more clear. I meant how have you expressed to that person of your interest? My husband already knows. Tink

thanks Thanks. It's not my actual name, but thought it would be cute. :) Kids like Tinkerbell. I do have a question. Have any of you gone about expressing interest in someone in your daily life? Also how? Tink

Hello. I finally stopped lurking. I've been reading around the forums for a few weeks now. I'm in my 30's and married for almost 10 years. I spoke to my husband recently about opening things up and today we really had a better conversation then the last one. This is the first time I haven't felt...