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  1. J

    Maybe, maybe not. Please help me decide.

    Thoughts. Fairly sure have reached a conclusion with all your help. I could be poly, if it was intense, deeply emotional, and with just a couple. Or poly if it was many many, a community who all cared very deeply about each other, though that does feel quite utopian when chemistry, and mental...
  2. J

    Maybe, maybe not. Please help me decide.

    My blood with gentle horror thrilled Grrrrr Bookbug. Just when I think it is all cut and dry, your reply comes along. Really respect your honesty. :) What you have I could live with. Three people in a relationship I could understand. The lady in question, and I will keep details as vague as...
  3. J

    Maybe, maybe not. Please help me decide.

    Heroine Opalescent, you are my hero of the week. Reading that was wonderful. :) Though do admit that 'ain't nobody got time for that!' Was read in the accent of Sweet Brown. (Everybody, please YouTube it if you have not seen it) Thank you for an open reply. When I mentioned a pool of people...
  4. J

    Maybe, maybe not. Please help me decide.

    Next question? Feel if I lived in a commune where love was all around, and really cared about the people, then it would be absolutely fine. In my mind it looks much better than monogamy. Jealousy would not be a problem, there would always be somebody to share with on those odd times when there...
  5. J

    Maybe, maybe not. Please help me decide.

    Missed a bit :) One last small addition. If I went poly, it would not be just for her. She has brought it to my attention, and want to seriously think through it and consider it. If I decide no, then No relationship with her, if I decide yes, would then embrace the lifestyle (and her). What I...
  6. J

    Maybe, maybe not. Please help me decide.

    Help all, I have met somebody who is poly. I have always been mono so far. Before I fully open up to her, and risk heartache, wanted to ask the community a few questions. I could ask her, but she is always massively pro poly. With lines like: monogamy is the wrong way, people were not made to...
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