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    Lies and Divorce

    Unless I end up giving birth to the second coming, pregnancy won't be an issue. He's staying with an old college buddy for the foreseeable future and side stepped me trying to give him a hug when we talked.
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    Lies and Divorce

    Vinsannity- I see where what your saying. I think my perspective is pretty screwed up though, having the person you married say to you that your upset because you didn't sleep around and are jealous because he did. I ask myself how was he supposed to handle that? He reassured me that the past is...
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    Lies and Divorce

    I feel like the what happened between my husband and I is being twisted. He apologized and took responsibility for not saying no when I first brought it up. At the same time he explained his reasons why. While I don't agree with them because I would never had started, I understand why. One...
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    Lies and Divorce

    We spoke and I've never seen him so broken. I asked him if I could speak first and took full responsibility for everything, that I would commit fully to fixing us, my screwed up thinking and asked him to take some time before filing the divorce. However long he needed, marriage counseling...
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    Lies and Divorce

    I've calmed down alot since yesterday got some sleep and was able to schedule an emergency appointment with my IC. She had no experience with poly relationships but I showed her what I had posted here and the responses. I also talked to my husband for a couple minutes and we're meeting to talk...
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    Lies and Divorce

    Anamikano trust me I want the harsh words, I'm trying to make sense of all this so I can try and fix things with my husband. Let me try and explain about trying poly so infidelity wouldn't happen later on. All my friends whose marriages have ended were caused by cheating. Most because one of...
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    Lies and Divorce

    I don't know how to reply individually​ sorry. About him cheating or something else, I doubt it. His work is basically all men and his OT was reflected on his checks. He doesn't do social media no Facebook or anything. I had to twist his arm to get him to buy a smart phone he thinks there...
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    Lies and Divorce

    I'm sorry if this is rambling I'm in complete shock right now. I've been been married to my husband for two years and together for four. We finally decided to talk about having kids and setting a time table for it and how many. This is something we both want so this wasn't an issue. What I was...
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