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I hope this doesn’t come off as patronising, Meg, but it does sound as if you could do with doing some work on your self esteem and boundaries, with a therapist if possible. However, that is categorically not to say that it’s your fault this relationship is in trouble. I have to agree with...

This doesn’t seem ok to me at all, so I’m not surprised you’re uncomfortable with it. What’s her rationale for how it could be fair that you should devote all your spare time to her, while she should be free to pursue other relationships? It makes no sense I can think of. It just sounds self...

Hi all, thanks for the replies. So to update, things have settled down a bit, though I'm still reeling from the strength of feeling I have for my new man. You are so right about NRE messing you up, Magdylyn and Kevin! I don't know if I've maybe never fallen quite this hard before, or just...

Thanks Thanks guys for taking the time to reply, esp when I'm new to the forum. Some wise counsel here. NRE can really mess with your head, no? However delicious and intoxicating ...

I have a long term partner and I began a new relationship a few months ago; my partner is also exploring a new relationship with someone else. We've been poly in the past but not for a long time. When my new relationship became sexual, I was prepared to feel some guilt towards my primary, even...