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Thought I'd quickly address this. As we live in the UK we should be able to do this free/cheaply. I understand the concern there, though. I feel like I understand what everyone's saying. I guess at this point the rules we have in place are kind of against a polyamorous relationship, but that's...

Thought I'd offer up a little update, following my counselling session on Friday: Although we didn't mention the polyamory in our session (didn't really think the first session was the time, especially with us focusing on healing from the cheating). Anyway, one of the things the counsellor...

Thanks for the input, Kevin. My girlfriend and I are kind of putting the polyamory in the back seat for the time being, just whilst we heal from the cheating. We're worried it will just confuse us and make it harder. Once we think we're sufficiently healed (we're aware how it's often impossible...

That sounds like an idea. Thank you. We've pretty much just decided to go to counselling soon. Looking like next week right now, and we're going to focus on healing. Again, thank you so much for that piece of advice.

Before the polyamory became an issue we'd already discussed the possibility of threesomes in our future. I think the cheating and polyamory coming up around the same time really shook her, and she's still finding it a little difficult to separate them. Her opinion on "sharing" me only really...

JaneQSmythe: Thank you. We really want to make it work and stay together, we just don't really know where we stand on it right now. We're still healing from me cheating. GalaGirl: That's pretty much it, yeah. She says that she could come round to the idea and would even be willing to take...

Thank you for your honesty. My girlfriend and I consider ourselves mature for our age, but we are still naive, especially in regards to polyamory. I think the idea of setting ourselves goals is a good idea, and I will definitely talk to her about it. Thank you.

I’ll be honest, this is going to read like a life story, but I am in need of advice, and I need to give the full story. I’m worried that for some people there might be something that will cause upset, so I’m going to put a trigger warning in regards to sexual abuse. Also, this is going to be a...

Hello from the UK. Recently came out as polyamorous, and a friend - not a member - told me about this site, so I thought it would be a good idea to check it out. I've had some rough times recently and that's quite something considering I'm only 19. Been with my girlfriend for 4 and a half years...