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It seems like talking to a therapist is highly individual. I haven't spoken to the therapist they talked to so I have no idea what they are like. But I can see myself being pretty cautious about bias and would probably not want to talk as freely if I thought the therapist were choosing sides...

Thanks for the reply. I do plan on doing my own therapy, but it seems my spouse is not sure he will go that route. Although he is open to the idea. I can see where different styles from therapist can work for some and not fo others. I can see that happening here for sure, but not sure it...

The abridged version... My spouse and I have been together for 10 years and married for 7 years, he has been dating his girlfriend for about 3. I feel like my spouse and I have a lot to work on in our relationship. I do not have a good relationship with my metamor, I don't feel comfortable...

Y is primary bread winner at this household. They lost their job. Is it manipulative it Z offered to cancel the date, but Y offered a compromise for them to be back early? Z has a history of not following through on their word or not regarding a request made by Y, which Z agreed.

Y had gotten laid off. Z offered to cancel the date, Y said you should go and but maybe come back a little earlier like at 10pm. Z has a pattern of not following through on their agreements, this was yet another example.

Z had asked Y what Y needed. Y asked Z to come home at 10 so they could spend time together before bed, which Z agreed. So Z did not follow through on an agreement Z made to Y. - this was a special case where Y needed something on a night Z was to go on a date.

I have been thinking about a behavior that one of my partners who is married has been telling me about. Here is the scenario. Rescuing them when you needed the support. Y and Z are a married couple who opened up fairly recently. Y had a really bad day at work and was feeling quite nervous...

Update:. I figured out why I am so not compatible with AA. I am a very blunt person, probably too honest and can often not sugar coat the truth. This often portrays me as an intimidating individual, who knows what I want and can take care of myself. I often wait for those individuals to...

Update:. I have realized I agree with this, she doesn't really get a say in how JT and I do our relationship. I don't have a say in how they do their relationship either, nor would I want to. I am doubtful this will happen. Both JT and AA are not ones to just walk away at this point... So...

He did at one point, which was more a poor choice of words than actual blame. That blew up in his face big time....

Hi, I created an account because I need some anonymity that I can't get in my poly group on FB. Anonymity had not been a big deal over the first 8 years of being poly, but has more recently become a issue in the last due to a metamor. I wanted to have the opportunity to get outside opinions...