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You read my mind. This point came to me this morning, but I thought I was being crazy. He tries to make both of us happy, so I thought I was maybe being inconsiderate for thinking that?

I'm bisexual, yes. However, I have never been romantically involved with a "fem" per se. So, it's definitely different and I wanted to actually have a relationship with her. But over the last year and how I've been treated, I'm unfortunately not attracted to her anymore.

I COMPLETELY agree with this, you're right. And I never automatically blame her. However, what am I suppose to do when she let's it be known she's not fond of me being around at the moment? (i.e. him and I were laying down together last night and he dozed off. We both were. She tapped him and...

Sounds that way doesn't it? Lol smh. It gets very exhausting. This thought came to mind last night funny you say. I love him and don't wanna lose him. But I might just have the dreaded conversation and tell him that her and I aren't gonna work and to see where we go from there

You have a good point. The last time her and I had a good talk we realized she didn't wanna be girlfriends anymore and she wanted to start over and learn me. But that was months ago with not much change. So, maybe another talk would be helpful

Yeah he's never said anything to her in front of me. But according to her, he says something all the time. She's just so stuck on this "not going how they discussed it" prior to seeking a girlfriend. She feels like it has to be the 2 of them or nothing at all. But maybe I should consider that...

I feel like it's a valid option as well. But she makes it impossible to get one-on-one time with him. Either it's him, her, and their child.....or we have to "sneak" to see each other every now and then. I do want one-on-one time though just so we can be us comfortably. But is it worth upsetting...

I'm just NOT compatible with his wife. I'm in love with my boyfriend, we been together for a little over a year. However his wife and I just can't make it happen. Her and I aren't together, and never really was. She claims she wants a triad, but shows me something else. What does a gal do when...

Oh no it's completely ok! But yes, the group is indeed secret. You aren't even able to search for the group unless you're a member of it. I've had some "concern" members at one point in time, but they've been pretty happy with the outcome so far.

I've made a secret FB group (which means nobody will be able to see if you joined the group) that's for polyamorous people. Network. Meet new people. Anything! If you're interested, send me a friend request so I can add you on in = ) My profile name is Jay Brit and I have 2 blue hearts as a...

This is true, sorry about that. I'm really new to the lifestyle. So, I don't always know proper terminology.

You did actually help. Provided me with a different mind set of thinking. So, as far as your situation -- would you mention it to everyone before you starting looking? Or only mention things if you think you found a possibility?

This is true! He doesn't treat me like I'm property though. He's just very loving and very protective. So, anything I could ever want and need, he wants to be the one to provide that. Which I can't be mad at, because to be honest I can't picture him with anyone else either besides his wife and...

Hello all! I am in my first polyamorous relationship, so, I'm definitely learning a bit! I started out in a triad with a married couple. However, as of now, I am dating the husband and the wife and I are going to work on a friendship ("for now" at least). However, while trying to get to this...

Aw, thank you!!

Tell me about it!!! But I love them, so, I'm sticking in there! So, for my own learning, is polyamory apart of the Mormon church as well? I was understand the impression that it was polygamy that related to the Mormon church. If polyamory is apart of the church, is it frowned upon if you're...

No one has ever "told" me that. It's my own messed up way of thinking I believe. I didn't necessarily grow up in a functional household, so, I believe that plays a part in it. I was brought watching my mom swallow here wants and needs unless she felt like she Really needed something. Because...

Aw man, you've been everywhere lol. Why all the moves? Have you been in the same poly relationship for 10 years? Or just apart of the lifestyle? But I became poly back in Jan. So, my couple and I are coming up on our 9 month anniversary soon

I'm a newbie and just became poly back in Jan of this year. So still learning a Lot of things lol

Hi there! And thank you! Where are you from/how long have you been poly?