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Yes, well, there is a lot to talk about between Jake and I. I look forward to the therapy. I really do. Thank you, Kevin.

Thanks @Magdlyn, this is definitely true.

Oh my gosh, Meera. Of course I read your story here after you reacted to mine yesterday. I am so sorry you are going through all this and I am very very sorry for the loss of your father. It is all so fresh and raw. You need time, rest, nice friends, warm tea, hugs, cuddles, blankets, candles...

Thank you, Kevin, for sharing your thoughts. I know the love languages and yes, we differ in that. We are aware. For me it is hard to connect on the physical level now (his love language)... Mine is spending quality time (which includes talking about things 😅). About the jealousy. I am more...

Yes....

Hi, thanks for answering again and for your questions. I'll try to answer some. Yes, I fell for someone else, and it caused me doubts in my r'ship with Jake, probably because there already was some distance between us. When the r'ship was over with the other person it had a huge impact on me. I...

Oh and I feel for you too. How does Eli feel about this? Do you know? And I understand and recognize completely your inner debate... It is so hard, sad en frustrating also to be in this situation...and feeling like the connection is slipping through your fingers. [Before this r'ship I was mono...

Wow I am impressed @Magdlyn you did a really good job summarising in different words and order my story. You are pretty right about a lot of things. Thank you for this. I indeed feel (your last paragraph) that Jake 🙂 has changed and I wish I could turn back time. I also indeed regret having...

Hi there, I thought it would be a good idea to turn to the forum again. I have been in a relationship with S for almost 10 years now, 5 years open. We don't live together. We do consider (I know, not very poly) this relationship primary. S is having a good time, dating regularly with mostly the...

Thank you Fleur-Du-Mal, I already did some TLC with S and will keep doing that. I noticed how important that is for us... And you are right, comparing makes no sense. Every relationships is unique. And I know myself as someone who gets easily overwhelmed with feelings, difficult ones or easy...

That's an interesting thought in the end. And in theory I believe I agree. Living that is more complicated I noticed.😅 Figuring out in general how poly works for ME while coming from a 'traditional monogamous relationship' is also process. Step by step. Thanks for sharing your ideas to my post.

I heard about this one, but had no clue of the exact details. :) Good to know! thanks

Thanks Kevin. I believe I do. :) And I will take the time to figure this out. In the meantime I had a great weekend with S, lovely, with a lot of talking, transparency, and quality time... just great. And I also had a nice talk with E last week, sharing my feelings and needs, and him returning...

Thanks to all of you who reacted, I really appreciate to hear your viewpoints and questions. It really helps me. I don't want to break up with S. I love him and we have a great relationship, I do think I would love to spend more time with him, to reconnect and I think we already started to do so...

Hi there, New to the forum. And grateful to be able to post here and ask for some advice or maybe (even better) questions that help me further in my struggle. I've been together with my partner S for 8 years, polyamourous for 3 years. The reason why was that we felt we could both love...