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Wow TLs....you two don't waste any time! Congrats! Enjoy the high! :)

I think the the anthropologist said it best in the other thread, where almost everyone agreed...."there can be ONLY one Romantic Love at a time". So you roll the dice....it may be toward your girl, or it may be toward you. But the reality is that there WILL be an imbalance!! If you can live...

Hi from 'close to Vancouver'. :) Nothing like a good "Joe's Latte" to bring us down to the drive.

Communication differences are a bitch! I can totally relate to you needing to talk it out. The other two in this strange relationship of mine, don't see it the same way. It sounds like it is the same for you! Are you able to talk it out with a friend? If not, time for a therapist, because you...

Are you a shrink? ;) Yes, that sounds like it may just be plausible. I have wrestled with the 'in love' piece of it, a lot. Like someone told me yesterday, "It is pretty hard to UNRING a bell," when I said that C & I were 'trying' to dial it down a notch. The thought of losing her as a friend...

Why, I ask, why? <shaking fist at the heavens> I actually played go-between for the two of them last evening and this morning, encouraging more communication, honesty, etc. Neither wanted to talk to the other, but the emails eventually started. They ranged from a scathing undressing by him...

I have to chime on to this thread too....cuz yup, it is sort of a cool thing! My experimentation with Orgasms didn't start till my mid thirties :( . Sadly. Very sadly. At this point, I was able to see why I had been holding back with many orgasms, and that was because of the ejaculation - I had...

Wheeeeee, the ride continues. We had our meeting this morning. It was HORRID! In fact, I have never been forced to witness such bad communication. C was on the defensive from the start and really talking nonsense. One minute she said she loved us; the next was 'Let's not say love again...

Actually, I am not really that shaken! Must be a good hormone day!! :p What I meant by the take it or leave it comment, is that hubby and I come as a package. I will choose to live with LESS equality in the love department from C, but she has to realize that it will always be the 3 of us, never...

Redpepper, they have already fallen in love. I have been their only spectator. I have seen the whole thing unfold. It is strange the things that I am okay with, and the others that I struggle more with. I will update the thread in a bit. Our meeting just ended. We definitely needed a...

Egad. Our meeting is less than an hour away and I am quietly freaking out. Trying to work. I have scribbled out a bunch of items on my notepad: 1. What is this relationship? What does it mean to you? 2. Communication 3. Hormones (help them!) 4. Reactiveness 5. Time together (set some limits) 6...

Yes, I wrote that one down too!! Good Ol Dr. Seuss! I do smile about this summer everyday....they were all 'yesterdays'. What is today? :rolleyes:

As the poly world turns... OMG. So now we are all having a meeting in the morning. C caved and wrote an email to us, apologizing, and wanting to go see the counsellor to help with 'staying friends.' Are you kidding me? Hubby, who yesterday said, 'I don't care what you two do. I hope you stay...

Well here I am on Day 1, post break up, and feeling pretty crappy. Thank goodness for a well stocked meds cupboard! ;) Actually, both hubby and I are feeling so sad. Yet, we know it is best. It just seemed that C wanted more and more, and I gave and gave. I mean, crap, I was going to therapy...

Wow, a post that I have NOT commented on yet! ;) I like that 'sexual fluidity' concept of female sexuality. It was interesting to me, and of course, highly electrifying to finally kiss a women, or rather a woman to kiss me, as I moved into my 40's. The first female sensual kiss as an adult...

Clarification....'she' does not equal 'C', 'she' equals LOVE....er, it may be 'he'. :rolleyes:

Maybe loving simply shows us what is possible. For me, I would have never believed it if I didn't experience this last round of love/lust/NRE....whatever the fuck it was! ;) It was so sensational. I will be much more receptive to all forms of love in the future, should she ever come knocking on...

I love you. Wow, can mean so much or so little. For soooo many years, I have battled to get these words OUT of my mouth more. My good friends, my family, heck, even my colleagues who have become such good friends to me over the years. I had never had to really figure out what "I love you" meant...

Yes, Jade, those are great words. I have used them myself too. If you haven't read the other posts, I will update you all and tell you that C pulled the plug today. She was very very upset that I told her that I was pissed off at her. She went around and around, making me feel like I had done...

Thanks TL. Yeah, it sucks. Friday night was awesome. Saturday was okay. Sunday was dismal. Now, Monday, it's OVER!! :( C has pulled the plug. She didn't like me telling her that I was hurt from her multiple digs yesterday. The fight started on Skype, then I asked her to call. She did. I...