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Hi, Your post is anonymous. From our Guidelines: https://polyamory.com/threads/user-guidelines.79465/ Your post has already probably helped others and will continue to do so. Best of luck with your relationship. Sometimes love isn't enough. We live, we grow, things change. Life goes on...

You know I wish you all the best. Just as an aside, I worked as a lactation specialist for 25 years, so if you need any help, hit me up in the DMs!

Indie, I think he answered that upthread: He doesn't want to "blow this." However, he wants to move more slowly. She wants to move up the escalator more quickly. And he is feeling scarcity. Like, she is one of the few poly women in his area, so he better do whatever she says, because if he...

I hope you're able to make the move to a more poly-friendly area! I live near Boston and it helps a lot.

I don't understand. Where are you trying to get to?

Okay, so you do need to work around your young daughter as you try and date. The older she gets the easier that will get. Good. That helps. Yeah, in this particular culture, this board, we have come to call polyamory a love style, to differentiate it from the more casual, sex-based...

mrd, have you ever been married? Do you have kids? Or are you pretty much your own man, except for when you need to work? Most women in their 40s are busy with careers and their school-aged kids. Some might be lucky to have built-in grandparent-babysitters nearby, but many don't. When I split...

So she's got four partners, and yet she wants all your free time, if she's free when you are. There is no rule that says you always have to be available for a partner (or any friend) when they have free time, and you do, as well. It's not a polyamory thing; it's just a relationship thing.

If you want a local polyamorous group, you could try googling "polyamory" + your closest city. Of course, you won't find as many polyamorists in KY as you might in, say, Boston or Seattle, but it's worth looking. Some swinger groups also border on polyamory in some ways, for alternative...

Hi, and welcome. We are all anonymous here. Any names you see are nicknames. :) Good luck with your V.

Tinwen, you misgendered Be.

Hey, I'm glad you're back with an update! That's good. Ugh, so it's just a summer romance with an end point. Well, maybe you can remain FWBs afterwards, at least until P finds the local person of their dreams. I gave up, myself, on dating people who were just dating around, but secretly or...

icesong, I am so happy there is less stress in your life right now, and things are improving in all areas, except with Artist, who is always great. Congrats to your daughter for coming out. My partner Pixi works at a camp in New England for trans kids. If your daughter is 15 or younger, she...

Another thread from 2014, begun by a more random person, not a super regular, with the word polysexual (vs polyamorous) in the title: https://polyamory.com/threads/finding-people-who-are-polyamorous-and-not-only-polysexual-advice.69915/

You must be about at your due date!

Hi. I see from another post of yours that you're a woman in your 50s. I officially separated from my husband, a mono marriage, at age 53, divorcing a few years later. I am now 70 and I've had no problem finding dates and partners. I am open-minded about age. I find some younger men (and women...

Try googling your city or a nearby city + polyamory and maybe you'll find a group. :) Good luck!

Hi and welcome. Polyamory.com is a forum for discussing topics related to ethical non-monogamy. Take a look around, especially in the Relationships section, to see how we assist the polyamorous community. While we do have a Dating and Friendships section, we are not a dating site. People post...

Thank you!! :)

Hi. I just want to confirm your feelings of being devastated, "not enough," the shock of this after a Christian upbringing and only ever being with one romantic/love/sex partner. You are reeling, and that is completely understandable. And you are not alone. I would suggest you try not to...