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I'm frustrated with being closeted about my boyfriend. He's an amazing person who has entered poly with me. I'm poly & he's always been monagamish. His ex & he had a DADT agreement when it came to sex with others. She had the option & never took it but he did at different times in their...

I've posted before that Surfer & I have had issues lately. I'm in a pretty crappy place right now where often I find myself run by my emotions. While Cowboy is exploring his sexuality with others I find myself not all that interested in sex. What I do know is I hate the way I'm feeling, I'm...

Surfer & I have had some struggles lately or should I say he's dealing with some conflict. We had a conversation that he had been avoiding. I wanted to let him know about my needs & basically put the ball in his court. He basically said that the conflict he's experiencing has led him to an...

Surfer can be just the sweetest man. We recently were away with Cowboy & Pixie. Cowboy left early because he had to return to work. Surfer & I were relaxing in a common area of a lifestyle friendly resort which we all frequent. Another guest stopped by to talk to Surfer & said "I met your wife...

As has happened before I find myself feeling insecure about Surfer. He & Pixie are swingers as I've mentioned in previous posts. Cowboy & I are not. Over the past several months the relationships between the four of us have changed. We've seen each other at our best & worst and been together in...

Well 2016 has been a tough year. Surfer got through his medical procedures & after some minor complications is almost back to normal. Pixie had major surgery a couple of weeks ago & will be healing for a while. I just got a bout of crazy allergies under control. Cowboy & I have been with them...

I just love Pixie & Surfer. Over the next several weeks Surfer is having some medical procedures. Pixie had already asked if I would help care for him after as I have an opposite work schedule from her. I agreed as she needs to minimize her time away from work & I tend to be at least as stubborn...

So I've made some bad decisions lately that were unkind to hubby (T). T's being upset with me upset (B) as he felt he influenced my actions. In truth he did but I was the one who made selfish decisions. It wasn't like he said "Hey, do these things with me & who cares how T feels." T & I have...

I find myself with a conundrum. I love T (husband) I love B (lover) but I have issues not being turned on by T while B drives me wild. Once the act is taking place I function just fine with T. I enjoy our foreplay & touching I just don't have the sexual response to him that he would like. I...

So as my husband and I have moved from an open marriage into a poly (for me & lover)/ super close FWB (hubby & lover's wife) situation I am overwhelmed at the closeness & caring we four have for one another. I never dreamed I would love 3 other people so much & that they would all be so...

So, I feel like my husband is my life partner. I love him & I don't see myself ever being without him. We've been together 17 years. Married for 12. BF & I are also in love. Best friends apart from being best friends with our spouses as well as being lovers & partners. We had long conversations...

So I've posted in previous threads about my BF B, husband T & BF's wife C. We got together for drinks last night & just love each other's company. B & C are at the lifestyle friendly resort for the holiday weekend. We were not able to spend the weekend as all of the people they share their...

Well in my previous post I outlined my new poly relationship. My husband (T), lover (B), lover's wife (C) & I did spend the weekend at a "lifestyle" nudist resort. Overall we had a blast & Fri T & C participated in "soft play." They fell asleep in one bed while lover & I took to the other...

So I've been married for 12 years & with my husband for 17 total years. Much of that time I've felt like I wasn't true to myself as I endeavoured to be a "good wife." After much discussion over at least a 4 year period we both agreed that it was time to open our marriage. Now I have no doubt...

So I'm a Southern lady who has always had poly tendencies. Primarily I'm here to see if anyone has a similar experience to mine but I'll save that for another thread :)