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So...I was told today that Facebook has now made a change to our relationship status options. :) There is now an option for "Open relationship". :D I changed mine to reflect that status just a few minutes ago. Caveat: If you had it registered as "married" before, it will send a confirmation...

Ok, so this morning, Cotton Candy (LT) and I were talking about me and her going on dates alone with other people. She has been on one for real, and one...KINDA. But that's a WHOLE different story for a different day. I've only been on one alone. Now, neither of us played or anything else on our...

Ok, LT met a guy a couple weeks ago. They hit it off, and she was scared to ask him out. So, I stepped in and spoke to him about it. I told him that she liked him and all. He said the feeling was mutual. Soooo...I put it back into her hands. She asked him out. :D Well, throughout the...

After coming out to our kids about a year or so ago, our 19 y/o daughter is embarking upon her very first poly relationship. :) We have been trying to support her in this decision and help her, and her new bf by pointing them in the right directions and offering helpful advice. She is getting...

Ok, lets all have a few laughs, and post up your most recent OKC messages you have received, and let us know if the message worked to get you to respond or not. ;) Personally, I haven't received anything in a LOOONG time. Trying to keep it out of the other thread which is about your online...

Ok, so LT and I posted an ad on craigslist looking for another cpl....We got a few responses from couples, and a LOT of responses from single guys just wanting to fuck LT. LOL They got deleted, and most of the cpls did too. HOWEVER, we DID respond to one cpl. We met them one day for coffee at...

Ok, I have a question......I have noticed (a LOT) that thinner women, usually prefer more....robust...men.;) While...."thicker" women, have a tendency to prefer......thinner men. It is very unusual to see a thin man, with a thin woman....not as uncommon, is the robust man, with a thicker...

Ok, I am one of the people who view sex as a necessity. I feel, that without sex, a relationship is a simple friendship. There is no love in it. Please...Keep in mind that this is just how I feel....Not that I am trying to say that is the only way. When my wife and I go for a period of...

I'm not 40! :mad: I'm 18....With 22 years of experience! :p Have a great day today guys and girls!

Ok, it has been my and my wife's observation that MOST men view polyamory differently than most women. SINGLE men (in our experience) are pigs. They get on poly sites or CLAIM to be poly, simply to get laid. They figure that since a woman's "poly", she's easy. (So not true) Once they get what...

Hey guys. Some of you have followed my blogs in the past, and know that in July, we plan on re-doing our vows. Well, here is the dress my wife is going to wear:

Why is it that couples are seemingly ALWAYS looking for a single female to enter into their relationship, but don;t want ANYTHING to do with a single male? I view it as insecurities within the male part of the couple. But then again, I AM the male part of a couple and have watched this time and...

Ok, so last week L and her D went out on a date together. Their date consisted of a scavenger hunt which I designed for them. It had some fact finding parts, which they both found out more about each other. And it had some sexually charged parts, which got them both even hotter for each other...

Ok....After a whopping 3 years in a relationship with another couple, L and I have broken up with them. :( But....we have moved on to other pastures. L has had someone pursuing her on OKC. I will call this someone D. (Not the same "D" from our other relationship ;) ) He is a nice guy and is...

Anyone who says "it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all", has never been in love. :(

Ok, I have a question....Is it possible to have TWO (or more) "soul mates"? I'm not so sure.....I mean, I am married to my "soul mate". We've been married for the last 20 years. When we got together, we both kinda knew we would be together for life.....I mean, it only took us a month before we...

Ok, so my wife L and I have been dating this other couple on again and off again for the last 2 years or so. Right now, we are "on again".....and it's great. It seems like this time, it may actually work out and work fine....but every other time it did too.....Of course, each time we've broken...

I'm curious....My wife and I have not really identified as "poly" for very long. We used to identify as "swingers", but that was not really what we were. Anyway, since identifying as "poly"....we've noticed that a LOT of poly people or people who claim to be poly, are very much like "hippies"...

So...We have been talking back and forth with another couple for the last two weeks or so online. We have exchanged (G-rated) pics and such (nothing X rated or even R-rated. Neither of us asked for those at all), and we have given them our phone number, but they never responded with theirs...

So, yesterday, the wife and I decided to actually come out to our kids. They are 18 and 13. It went surprisingly well. Although I couldn't expect anything less as our kids are pretty well grounded. We went out to eat at a local outdoor place so we wouldn't be listened to by too many people...