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    It doesn't feel like a compliment

    I don't know if anyone else experiences this but what is up with new partners and their willingness to hop in bed with the OSO of their new crush without having ever met or spoken to them? My husband consistently finds female partners who, at best, might have seen a picture of me and express a...
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    Am I out of line here?

    Something I posted about a couple of years ago on page 5, post # 42 of this thread has become an issue again. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3648 After holding my ground about M needing to work on his communication skills he has decided to become a man of action on the matter...
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    I'm pretty confused right now

    I’ve gotten frustrated with my husband’s relationship and his GF. I’m sure some of it is due to the circumstance of her being intimate with my husband. I also suspect my growing feelings about being open in general adds to the mix too. I had a 1 ½ long relationship with another guy and it got to...
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    Who is so super enlightened now?

    Poly seems to be in the news a lot now. Or maybe I just never noticed how often it gets talked about till my partner and I began exploring an open relationship model – who knows? But it’s been two years since we took the plunge. We’ve experienced an unplanned triad attempt that went south...
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    Playing favorites with metamours?

    Has anyone dealt with feelings of opposition to your partner's new interest due to having really liked a previous one they have or had? My husband had met a woman about a year ago that he really clicked with and unfortunately, she and her primary ended up having to relocate very far away for...
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    Trying to minimize hurt feels

    I've been getting pretty frustrated about this. You know your partner. You know when they're in a good mood and jazzed about someone new. Yeah, I'm feeling a bit prickly getting use to it sometimes because hey hey, we're still in the first year and I'm still getting use to things being...
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    Hurt ego spill over

    Is it normal for one to experience some rejection or ego bruising from relationship and then worry their other relationship partner will end up doing the same? What can one partner do to help the other in this situation when they didn't do whatever caused the hurt feelings to begin with? How...
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    A woman reached out to me

    She saw me on a dating site and began asking me how things were working for us. I shared with her this site but she is still asking me for advise for something her and her partner are dealing with. I'm so new to all this that I'm wary about advising her too much. But her problem is one that...
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    I need help with preventing messy results

    My husband (Taylor) and I had idealized, even before we were together, a committed non-monogamous relationship. While I always thought it sounded great, I had doubts about how many people were truly capable of living up to it. I've been in monogamous relationships before and did not find it...
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    Where do we fit in?

    I came to this site because my marriage is not conventional and we hit a snag. As I read some of the threads on here, I am confused and don't know if I'm in the right forum or if there even IS a forum for my relationship. My husband and I have an open marriage. I see many threads on here the go...
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