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    Eff you, fear!

    Ok, so, I am super proud of myself. My husband has been wanting to try poly for quite a while, but I've been dragging my feet. Although poly interested me, I was letting fear get in the way. What if he finds someone and I don't, what if I get jealous, what if nobody wants me, blah blah, blah...
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    Polyamory-friendly counselors

    My husband and I live in a conservative area and are planning on going to couples counseling. Has anyone found it difficult to find a polyamory-friendly counselor in conservative areas?
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    Advice About Trust

    My husband and I have talked about poly and agreed on rules. He broke a rule. How can I trust him again? We have very good communication and have talked about this issue a lot. The question I posed to him was, "You promised you would never ever do this, and I trusted you wouldn't. But, you did...
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    Polymatchmaker

    Has anyone used polymatchmaker.com?
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    Mono to poly

    I would love to learn more about people's experiences making the leap from mono to poly. Is there already a tread about this?
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    Polys not jealous?

    Are people who are naturally poly naturally not jealous, or do they have to work at it? Why would you want to be poly if you experience jealousy? Is it possible to go from jealous to not jealous? Are the people who experience jealousy just trying poly because perhaps a partner came out as poly...
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    Confused thoughts from a flip flopper

    I am mono and my husband is poly. He has been in both mono and non-mono relationships and said he is happy in either. Before meeting him I was completely mono and didn't think much about poly because it never came up. When I met him and he told me he was poly I had so many emotions going on. I...
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    Does acting as if work?

    I sometimes struggle with jealousy, so I read the section on jealousy on morethantwo.com. Step two of the three easy steps to self-confidence is acting as if you are self-confident. Does it work the same way for jealousy? If you act as if you aren't jealous, then you actually become not jealous...
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    Confused in WI

    I'm from WI and new to this site. I am married and my husband is poly. Although my husband is poly, he has been in both poly and mono relationships and is ok with both. I am mono, so we are currently mono. But, I'm poly curious. And just very confused. I would love to have someone to talk to who...
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