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So, Jess and I have started watching “This is Poly” because she just loves trashy reality TV. And this one doesn’t disappoint. But it will disappoint you if you’re looking for poly representation. Because of course it’s disappointing. What else could it have been… One is a triad with the OC...

Our couples therapist landed a hit with a definition of loyalty that sent me spiraling into that "how was I supposed to learn that if no one taught me?" feeling. She said that loyalty is more than being just supportive and there. There's a component of "allegiance". That's easy in a mono...

In contemplating things, there’s a real hard-on for punishing cheating. It gets a little ridiculous, how aggressive it is. Not that I’m excusing cheating behavior. I’m reading about Restorative Justice practices, and it’s apparent that the paradigm around punishment over repair and restoration...

Hi. Huh. I’m glad I spent some time reading here first. I’ve made a few mistakes starting off… I’m 40m, and been in this relationship (marriage) for 20 years. We have some pretty awful mismatches. I was an easy low-stakes attachment for her. I’m kinky and very sexual. My wife Jess is asexual...