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Forgive the length and the inevitable typos. I've written "my wife" to keep her name out of it. Part 1: So we could go back to my childhood but for now let me just say that my adolescence and the whole decade of my 20s and even early 30s were incredibly isolating and lonely and painful in terms...

If you had just opened your 20-year marriage for the first time, and your initial boundaries were very clear that neither you nor your wife would seek out anything like a lifetime partner, or kitchen-table polyamory, at least not for a long time, and your wife’s first relationship turned serious...

We opened up in December and my wife met someone immediately. I finally met him last month and after all this build up, was shocked that this was my wife’s big relationship. He’s nice. And that’s it. Not smart, funny or interesting. He’s really overweight, has PTSD and lives in a trailer. I was...

Hi. New here and new to poly. Sort of. I’ve been deeply happily married to my wife for 20 years. Our first decade together she was constantly jealous and mistrusting of me, making sure I was never attracted to other women, though I never gave her any reason to. If you had asked me if I thought...