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Hi all. Never thought I'd be making a post on here again, but here I am. I am poly, but no longer living the lifestyle. My fiance left me and my boyfriend and I agreed to be mono. There are 2 main reasons for this. 1) What we have is amazing and it fufills both our needs. 2) Our attempt at poly...

So, I'm on this self improvement kick right now. I have been having alot of personal growth. It feels great to be more in tune with myself, but the growing pains are never fun. Anyways, with all of this self analysis I have discovered that it takes some time for me to "bounce back" from hurt...

So... I'm trying to grasp if Bud is having just a fear or if it is a trust issue that he is having with me. I'm hoping I can throw it out there to yall so you can run with it and maybe shed some light or it just make for an interesting conversation. Last night Bud asked me last night if his...

Did you decide to be poly in order to fill a void where your partner should be? Did you search out someone to ease your loneliness for your partner? My boyfriend it seems is thinking this is HIS poly. He "wants me to be enough." But he fears that even after he moves here (hes 3 1/2 hrs away)...

Okay, brace yourselves, because I am mainly a lurker and this has building for months, so it will be a long one. It all started probably around the time of my icky can of worms. My fiance (C) and I had that initial one connection and then things took a terrible turn. He started becoming very...

Okay, so we haven't "come out" and I have no one I can talk to because of it. After months of prepping my friend and I are going on our first official date this weekend. It's out of state so I will have to spend the night. My fiance hasn't dropped the boundary of sex yet so I have been thinking...

So, I have a little time to bring up the topic of sex and how I view it. I've actually realized today that how I think I should view sex and how I actually view sex are very different and I'm starting to sort this out. It came about through messages with my fiance. I started to wonder why I...

Hi All, Please excuse me ahead of time if this post becomes long-winded. Much thanks for any and all advice. My situation is complicated. I have been with my fiance for over 6 years now, and we have a 4-year-old daughter. We have had a rocky relationship which stemmed from his battle with...