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Hello all! I haven't logged on to this board since sometime in 2011 so I thought a new intro would be a good idea. lol My name is Rebecca. I go by Avi. I'm from Texas. A writer, singer, musician, and currently enjoying a mission to taste all the high-end chocolate on earth if possible. My...

I am seriously considering having myself sterilized after reading all this stuff about women who turn 40 suddenly being insatiable. Damn.

I am not practicing polyamory, so I can't really give practical advice. But I can say that something that may help you to relax (and get better sleep) is the knowledge that 1. You cannot own your partner, no matter how much you love them. They belong exclusively to themselves. Therefore, you...

Lol so interesting to read all these "records" for guys. And it's really really sad to me for my own relationship be use my guy's record was WAY higher. (not to brag, but he more than doubled the highest record in here. And i verified it.) so why the sudden utter lack? And for my clients, why...

I know it is very mixed. Because all women are different just like all men are different. I guess I am just hoping for some advice to give to my clients and to use myself to get more sex out of our partners. I mean, the ladies i am talking about are a long way from nymphs. But I think when...

Well, I am glad to see there are a few men on here who still would drop computer time for sex! Lol

That's actually helpful. I have noticed that there seem to be at least as many poly women as men also. Which supports this theory.

I have to agree with NYC. It sounds like this man has, through years of emotional betrayal and abuse (and yes, that's what it is) transitioned you from loving wife to obedient but unwitting slave. Any man who is under the delusion that all he need do is keep a woman physically safe from...

Here is the bottom line: if you had to choose your longtime friend or your new love, who gets the preverbal drumstick? Until you know the answer to that question, you are on very shaky ground, regardless of how he does or doesn't feel about your connection with her. Also, where does it stand...

I have to ask this question because frankly, it is driving me crazy. First, I work as a professional psychic. Yes yes. Laugh if it's funny. Lol. That's how I make my living. I say that only to explain where I am getting the basis on which I ask the title question. Is male sex drive all just a...

It is actually a policy of criminal profilers NEVER ever to profile anyone under 18 Because all teenAgers profile as some variety of sociopath. (real life fact) I didn't go to school so I have no die what this dynamic is like. But I have to say, based on what you wrote here, there is probably a...

Isn't part of the point of poly to be able to bring more people into your life to meet all needs In a safe loving way? Maybe a new sexual partner needs to be courted. Not sure I understand enough to offer any ideas though.

Hey. :) saw your post in the new to poly section. Seems like hour having a hard go of it right now. *hugs*

Wow, this is a tough situation overall. I think that first thing that really stands out to me in your post is that you didn't state why you went snooping in the first place. What triggered that? It sounds like there are already underlying trust issues on your part, which means there are...

Genderqueer, assigned female at birth, pansexual. Heck, if dolphins could speak English, i would find them sexy. O.o

To tell you the truth, I do not think that looking for a loving relationship because of the loss of family support is at all unhealthy. First of all, loneliness is THE main reason people seek out traditional relationships in the first place. Second, it might be a better world if everyone...

Oh no worries! :) You didn't offend. Feel free to express anything that you want here. I think this was just kind of out of left field so people were going "wow, never thought of that before." :D i think it's very interesting as a subject on the whole.

Well, I admit to finding the idea of an entire community dedicate to the concept of poly extremely interesting, I don't think that a poly community would survive the end of the world any better than any other kind. In fact they might do worse because in severe survival situations, strong family...

I am not sure what this has to so with poly... But that aside... Why would anyone want to survive if 2012 brings unspeakable cataclysm? I certainly don't want to be one of the few left mourning over the ashes, so to speak.

I am glad that you were able to talk this out with him. :) It sounds like you set forth your limits for the time being in this relationship and now the only thing will be sticking to your guns (and him to his word). As far as if he will love you less if your a "not kinky enough"... I don't...