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I guess one of my biggest concerns is that she will kinda talk my hubby but doesn't want to talk with me about it. Also she tends to shut down when we are having big talks.

Hey everyone I wanted to give an update on our first group talk. So I had been noticing certain behaviors in the other female part of our group. I talked to my husband about them and we decide it was time to have a group talk. Not sure it went really well. But here is what happen.... I had...

Yeah, most of the advice I got does help.thank you

That's what normally happens. Me and him Me and her. Not sure how much they have gone out together. Most times they just talk at the house. Everything that we are doing and going through right now is based on how comfortable I am. So for me right now, its just slow going. We take everything...

Lol. Yes much better with the questions this time. We all play cards together or play on the ps3. We haven't gone out in a group in a while. Every now and again her and I go out. It is slow going but we are working on it. Like I said in my first post things were rough for a while. But we are...

I I know that she has said something about at some point maybe having sex with him. There is no time table. I don't know how I feel about it right now, to be honest. I know that he is not looking for it at this point. The main thing right now is that the three of us are trying to get back to...

Him and her don't have sex. They care for each other but none of us are ready for that step at this point. She is my best friend of 16years and about 2 years ago needed a place to live. That's why she lives in our home. All three of us are taking things slow, no one wants to rush into...

So many people gave me some good advice last time, so I'm back for some more. Our poly is new to us and we are all taking it very slow. But this morning the other female part of our group seemed very upset( lives in our house, but as her own space). How do you bring up sensitive subjects? I...

Yeah, I think that we can. Like I said I love them both and they love me. And just getting that one thing off my chest and out in the open made me feel better.

The three of us have talked about somethings. One impptant thing for me was that I don't want an open relationship. I want it to be just the three of us, and they both agree. To me that is a step towards the positive. Just like I have come to understand that not everything needs to be fast...

I wanted to thank everyone who gave me some advice. This is so new and a little scary for me. I'm glad that I have found a place where I can ask the questions that I need to ask without being judged. I have talked some with both the people that I love about some of my fears and thoughts and it...

Yeah everyday is a little easier. And everyday is a little bit better. Thank you

I honestly don't know if I would tell my family. I would not tell my co- worker(for a few reasons). I do feel that it is no ones business but ours. I just want to be happy with the people I love. I'm working very hard with everything that I am trying to do. But yes it is hard to see it all...

getting help I am seeing a doctor about my anger problems. One of the things that she has told me is that one of the reasons why I was getting angry is because I couldn't express how I was feeling. And thank you for the articles, I can start to understand more. One of my problems with coming...

more info Thank you first off for all the help. I wanted to question the question that someone asked about the problems. My husband and I have had a tough few months because I got stressed at work and depressed. And I would come home upset and be kinda.mean with everyone. That's how he and...

So I am new here. Well to the whole thing really. I wanted to see if anyone had any advice or anything. So here is the story. I am married, in the last few months things at home had been stressful. My husband and myself are trying to work through issues that we have had that last few months. I...