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I don't know if I am in compersion yet but my primary and her bf are at a concert together tonight and I feel okay. I don't want to vomit, scream cry, hold onto her for dear life, etc. I have had major breakthroughs today! I am so fortunate/blessed to be with such a compassionate person as her...

Hey I am brand new to poly practice and am going through the same things except I am a man with a poly wife. I feel an urgent need to know from others if the feelings of being okay are just being distracted from the dread. Is this the case for you? I need to figure this out quickly because I am...

Drinnt, your words mean a lot to me. I needed to hear that because I have been seeing how powerfully earth shattering and gut wrenching this journey can. Its made me wonder is this really a good thing for anyone or is everyone just coping by eventually numbing themselves?

Thanks Asparagus. I went into things with no preset boundaries because I didn't want to stifle things unnecessarily and wanted to set them as needed. Your reply helped me to better understand the boundaries I need. Particularly time and meeting needs for connection. The times seem to take longer...

Has anybody here (particularly men whose first experience was your wife with another man) had a really bad first poly sexual experience and it still turned into something good. I have and it felt like my world was destroyed. He does not seem like a bad guy but the experience and the emotions...