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  1. K

    Advice on Divorce For Other Partner

    Thanks for the advice and stories everyone. We told our parents on all 3 ends and so far the only one who isn't supportive are mine like usual. But I told her pretty much she can't stop it I am an adult and this is my choice. Soon to be ex husband is being really supportive through all of this...
  2. K

    Advice on Divorce For Other Partner

    My mother has already openly stated that if there is anyone else she won't accept because she doesn't believe in messing around with the married. While it hurts it is her loss. Both of the partners involved are great people they just got thrown into a bad spot.
  3. K

    Advice on Divorce For Other Partner

    We have been dating for a good while and he understands what he is jumping into. There are a few people on my husbands side as well so we are going to let others know that yes there are others involved. I don't have a job, but am looking. We are still working out the details. Husband is upset...
  4. K

    Advice on Divorce For Other Partner

    I need some advice. My husband and I have been poly for 3 years now, and poly or not we've had a lot of issues. He has lied and cheated numerous times, has a gambling problem, and really an honesty issue all together. Whenever we fight everything is always my fault no matter what. Even if we've...
  5. K

    New Love Limbo.....

    Know what? I hope you don't love him more than anything. That you would leave if he started beating you up or murdered a child or something. I love my husband, but I would leave the second he even did anything harmful to myself or my children. I have been in an abusive relationship and that is...
  6. K

    New Love Limbo.....

    Thank you guys for all the posts. To clarify a few things we have always been super open with eachother about the others relationships. And finally after quite a few fights my husband broke down and let everything out which is what we were all waiting for. He usually doesn't hold stuff in but...
  7. K

    Poly & PTSD

    Usually we tell each other everything. This is the first time he has every told me to just straight up not answer him, or lie about answers with someone. So it is a new territory.
  8. K

    New Love Limbo.....

    I seriously hate, hate, hate, and hate when someone new comes in. I hate how it turns everything upside down within the group. A little background, I have my husband and a boyfriend who has been off and on for two years, and I just added a new one into the mix. As usual it has thrown everything...
  9. K

    Poly & PTSD

    Only other struggle is with my husbands but his is he can't find anyone to make a connection with so its hard on him when I find someone that I do make a connection with. It kinda upsets him a little. So it makes me feel like I'm wrong in a sense.
  10. K

    Poly & PTSD

    Has anyone dealt with it? I used to be in an abusive relationship in high school and it made mono dating hard, until I found my amazing husband, but it seems to be making poly that much harder. I feel safer when I am with more than one person so I feel like I look past the flaws that most the...
  11. K

    Finding People To Date....

    My husband and I have been poly for about 3 years now. We are trying to find good places to look for other poly people or just people in general to date. Okcupid in our area for Jacksonville Florida has a bunch of people who are pretty much just looking for FWB, and fetlife has turned up people...
  12. K

    Divorce

    It's more so about her calling me crazy and pyscho and leading him into this. As well as if he bring her around me or my daughter I want a way to not have that happen especially with the blatant disrespect and the crazy comments and a baby on the way.
  13. K

    Divorce

    My husband and I are divorcing. I have had to stay in North Carolina with family because of our roommates and his girlfriend not allowing me back into their house. I found out that my husband and her were having sex and a relationship behind my back, even while I was there pregnant with his...
  14. K

    Poly in divorce filing?

    They have been incredibly disrespectful throughout this entire ordeal. Emotionally blackmailing me every step of the way. I told my husband she goes or I do.
  15. K

    Poly in divorce filing?

    Pretty much he keeps telling me that I made him suffer and he could've divorced me any time. And that nobody can change and my sorry and realizing my mistakes means nothing. I told him they were being ridiculous fighting over simply having the title boyfriend/girlfriend right now because they...
  16. K

    Poly in divorce filing?

    I don't have a lawyer yet. I am looking in case it does happen. I just wanted to know if anyone has gone through it before and how they explained the situation. Especially since we have children.
  17. K

    Poly in divorce filing?

    Divorce has come up pretty much because my husband and his gf won't give each other up and he's been throwing in my face that I've done the same when I've apologized and am now trying to fix it by taking it just us for however long. I got told that I either stick with him and endure what he did...
  18. K

    Would you leave or stay

    I love him alot and don't want to leave him but I don't know what to do anymore. If I ask for monogamy he is so heartbroken because of how much he loves her and if I let them date I am heartbroken because it's not what I want. She told him last night in text she loves him and always will because...
  19. K

    Would you leave or stay

    I have been talking with a friend about going to stay with her til he is able to get a home. I am so crushed. I am literally letting them date til he gets a house then I have no clue. I honestly want to tell him no more and cut contact completely once that happens.
  20. K

    Would you leave or stay

    Would you leave or stay if your partner fell in love with someone they were unwilling to give up? I have now had to let them start dating again under strict rules because everyone was so depressed and I felt like I had lost my husband more. I don't want polyamory anymore but he wants us both. I...
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