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    Poly dating someone who may be Mono

    Thank you all! I think I'm coping well with the breakup and enjoying some of my free time to do my own thing. I'm still flooded with fond memories of her, and it makes me sad, but I think this is pretty natural at this stage, and as Keven suggested, I'm allowing them to run their course. I...
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    Poly dating someone who may be Mono

    I thought you all ought to know what happened, because I would love some support or kind words and advice going forward. It could also be instructive to those that are poly, but considering dating someone who might be mono. I did it. I broke up. And it went awful. Yesterday morning, I let my gf...
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    New poly-relationship has me in crisis!

    Hey Danielsen. I think one of the biggest blockers for you is to deal with your insecurity, and comparing yourself to others. One new development in psychology that specifically addresses insecurity is practicing self compassion, as presented by Kristin Neff in her lovely book on the subject...
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    Poly dating someone who may be Mono

    I appreciate all the wonderful replies! It really helps to hear from good poly people about this. As it was, I was pretty stuck in my head about this, and didn't really have the opportunity to talk to others about it. While I have some poly friends, most of them are not, and they really wouldn't...
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    Poly dating someone who may be Mono

    Hi All, This is my first post, and I've been lurking for a while now. First off, I am new to polyamory, but I have read most literature on the topic, have plenty of poly friends, had casual sex with said poly friends, but haven't really had a deep poly relationship ever. I also don't really get...
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