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    theoretical question re falling in love with more than one

    I still love my first High School girlfriend. It has been almost 50 years, we talked several years ago. I was young and clueless. She said she still did and wished we had gone further then. We never became close enough to really get into a relationship. We talked on the phone, but she was not...
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    That is the big issue, a woman that wants to join a polygamous relationship.
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    We are not interested a roommate or hot sexy woman. We don't even date under 45 and are more interested in someone that fits in as a partner. As for cleaning up messes, in our household we all share responsibilities and benefits. We want nothing less. Others we have been involved with wanted...
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    Sort of where we are at. Neither of us likes the party. We barely drink, she at the moment is building a business. I do domestic and help her out. We were in poly relationships in the past. Two live in women at different times. Some girl friends, mine some we shared. She has an occasional male...
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    V-triad: One wants Parallel, two want Kitchen Table

    Same thing I am interested in. Granted some want a more normal relationship of two people with a girl friend on the side. I would rather have a kitchen table relationship.
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    That is what I was looking for, discourse on more than sex. I am good with sex, more than good, all our live ins have been more sex oriented relationships than household related. To me they didn't last because no matter how good the sex is, you need more in a relationship. In the past polygamy...
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    Thanks Kevin. As for what is in it for wife #2, Equal treatment, that is all. With our second live in, we put the cards on the table. Nothing hidden, I could tell them both I love you, in front of each other. Which is how I prefer it. I don't lie and can not hold things back. Of course our...
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    A loving caring relationship is important, But that, a sexual component, and family life are required for a family to exist. It just seems that the loving sexual component out weigh a family-work component. We had one woman that we had the loving sexual component but she would help out a little...
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    Sex, why is it always about sex?

    Good morning all. My wife and I have gone back and forth with poly, especially polygamy. How many of you think past sex and to establishing a family, a business, rather than just sexual relations. Our daughter, now 16 has heard from us, we need a wife! Mom Dad has a wife, you. No Daddy and I...
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    So I accidently came out to my parents...

    When we had our girlfriend living with us my Liberal Christian Sister was coming up to visit. On the phone I told her that the girl was living with us, when she realized it was more than a room mate, she freaked. Irony is that she is ok with a Gay relative of her son in law and my Lesbian...
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    Figuring out root cause of jealousy

    She sounds she is more like a Swinger than Poly. Poly is like monogamy just with a 3 or maybe more people. We have a relationship with another guy, with my wife and him it is sexual. With the three of us it is friendship. We have had a woman or two in our relationship, but they were more into...
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    I'm back

    It is called humor, I do the cooking and help with the cleaning, My wife is in the workshop fulfilling an order. Oh that is from wife, not me
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    Girlfriend needs to drink to be intimate with me

    It may be she has social or moral reservations to the relations and is trying to adjust. Society tells us no bi, be monogamous and it is an adjustment to enter into a Poly relationship
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    I'm back

    And sew, that is a +1
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    I'm back

    It is good to be back, I worked way too much the pas few years. Now a new Chapter. But the wife is bugging me, she says we need a wife. Someone that likes to cook, clean and do laundry
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    Well that didn't go as hoped. 😕

    Single Bi Female
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    Well that didn't go as hoped. 😕

    We had a SBIF like that once. She was there for awhile, a few towns over, emailing, then poof claims she went to France to live. WHatever
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    I'm back

    Hello everyone, work kept me away for a couple of years, Glad to be back
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    Wow what a feeling

    Hello Matt82, great start. And a lucky one, on the first try. We are poly, never found the right woman, came close 3 times. Best is the reduction of daily living stress we have always experienced with a poly relationship
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    Hosea the prophet

    Multiple wives were two things, women were second class at the time and more hands lead to better financial security.
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