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Yeehah! Have at it, Freetime!

Keep postin' these links...

gender/pref female; straight.

thanks for trolley idea...

I "get" Mono's take on life...and BornEmpathin Virgo, it is what I can't seem to explain fully to anyone... often I will "know" what someone is about to say, before they say it....will "know" there's a car in my blind spot even though all signs are to the contrary... used to be friends said I...

anneintherain's tag line says it well....A bit odd to post here as a "visitor" but it embodies so much of the outlook I've had seemingly forever.... "Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have." Thanks Anne

Everything or nothing Being everything to someone is a huge responsibility, and can leave one feeling, unjustly, like a failure, if your partner is not "happy."

Social conditioning NYCindie, this is so true as is the reverse. When a woman begins to feel the sun shining on her freedom to be who she is, either polyamorous, monoamorous or "omniamorous" (thank you, Redpepper, for that great term), a social conditioning response may kick in within her...

living with... I'm beginning to understand more clearly what it means to take responsibility for my own happiness and keep myself centered without maintenance from someone else. This is good for me, and it allows me to offer my partners what they need without selfishly shoving their needs...

friendship taken slowly Meeting or knowing an individual, whether in person or at a distance, and intuiting something deeper can occur, is how I move forward with a relationship, however deep it may develop or with what amount of "connectivity." For me, this works. I have known IG for 17...

What comes most naturally to IG, is being with others, couples, as he said recently. Most naturally. He has vowed to himself, and I applaud him for this, to live without denying this part of himself, which he needs. and which in previous lives, he has promised he would refrain from, which led to...

open up at the risk of sounding snarky... chill, DoctorBones. Open up. If necessary refrain from checking this thread until in the company of a tall shotglass of Jamesons and the quiet of your mind. The cultivation of resilience will help you survive... as will the folks in this forum. Give...

"The number one thing that damages my self esteem is other people not having good self esteem and trying to decrease mine by defaming me..." Man this is true true true! well put

"Sport fuckery!" What a great, descriptive term "sport fuckery" is. I see nothing derogatory about it, and in fact, am adding it to my inner vocabulary of sexuality. Thank you, Sagency. When a swinger starts setting up appointments a couple hours apart, when swinging through (pardon...

peace just peace. Boob gone...bad mix

hey man... hey man...is that boob picture too much?

Don't worry, honey, I'm buying a new chainsaw and taking up American football... when you get the chainsaw, Echo has good ads...but Stihl has the most torque, the longest-lasting chains, and the best overall reliability, which is why most firetrucks carry them... and...

mysteries I can live with mysteries. In fact, most reveal themselves in time. I have what has been called Oriental patience. Acceptance of yourself is key to accepting others. Be as you are. You are beautiful "as is."

paintaway! go on, River, paint your toes! pick a color to match the bright, flowing skirt you will wear... manicure...pedicure...pawdicure as my dogs do in the morning...all good for the soul

are you kidding? do you really paint your toes crazy colors too?