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Thank you xx it's been especially hard as I had my first orgasms with this man too. So he's given me a very special gift and then (irrationally) I feel he gave it away. I'm hoping to find out if that's the case. I was the one that made mention that we don't share this stuff anymore and that I...

I've included my input within the original text, this might make it hard to read though, I'm rubbish at all this formatting, sorry :-/

This is helpful, I'm going to think on this and fill in the gaps tomorrow. Thank you :)

I'd love to feel like I don't have to convince anyone of anything, but I'm finding it difficult to get the advice I'm looking for, as people are too busy assuming they know my relationship better than I do. You guys have half a story, and while I accept that I have come and shared a pile of...

Wow that sounds hard. I'm so sorry you went through this. I can see why from the outside it would seem like there are similarities, but really, there's not. I think I'm just really bad at explaining myself, especially when I want to get all my hurt out and it leaves the story very one sided...

Sorry, I missed this, this is a really good blue print for me to work from, thank you for taking the time to spell it out for me :) he really is working hard on our relationship and has (and offered to) compromise himself in many ways for my comfort. But ultimately, while I can tell him what I...

Thank you everyone for your replies, everyone is completely useful and I'm grateful x It's both, I think I was already struggling with jealousy and this has pushed it over the edge and has become about distrust. I hate that I blame her though. She's blameless, I know, but everything bad that's...

I guess I haven't made myself clear. Love isn't all our relationship has. My partner is wonderful and caring and every other area is perfect. I'm an adult that has been in many relationships, including a marriage and I know when something works and when it doesn't and when something is worth...

Hi Evie :) Thanks for sharing xx This is the 4th relationship I've lived with. His first. It is about learning to accommodate each other :) however this being my first poly relationship makes the struggles unusual for me and as such I'm not wquipt with the tools to deal with them. But I'm...

Thank you for your replies :) I missed out his side I guess, he did apologise, he claims misunderstanding in what we agreed and thought we could come back to the discussion. He didn't have the girls here, had simply messaged them asking if they were free to come before asking me if that was ok...

Hi, I've been with my partner for a year. He's 14yrs younger than me. He's the love of my life. He's poly. If I didn't love him so much almost immediately, I would have run a mile. I very specifically didn't want a relationship, just fun, so all of these difficult details didn't matter. Then we...

Hi, I'm new to poly, in my first poly relationship which is a year in. We've been poly from day one and have just moved in together. It's hard. So I'm here looking for support and advice to help make it work :)