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Oh, I should have mentioned, my Mother in Law works at the local shelter, so I don't think going to them is an option for me.

I was feeling guilty about my decision last night. Feeling like I shouldn't leave. Maybe this is all my fault. Maybe I haven't been clear in communicating my needs in this situation. We ended up having another discussion last night because I'm terrible at hiding my feelings. Somethings that...

You are both absolutely right. Galagirl - When I tried to leave last time, she put herself between myself and the door, so I physically could not leave. She has a history of being physically abusive towards her past partners, although never with me. In that moment, I was scared for my...

It's official. I'm a wimp. We had the talk on Sunday. It ended up being about 3 hours long. I told her exactly how I was feeling. She reminded me that when we first talked about this, I would give her until the end of Janurary before I made my decision. That way, I will have had some time...

Thank you. I think that given time to heal, I might be okay with the situation. That said, I'm not healing with him in my life in any way. I can't really tell my fiance this though, because I don't want her to get her hopes up and for me to end up never being okay with it.

Oh my goodness, I was so confused for a minute! LOL!

I feel like that last part deserves a bit more of an explanation. I am *NOT* trying to set a trap for her. I worry that because I have been vague and have backed down in the past that maybe she is unclear with how I am feeling. I think the only way forward for me is to very clearly let her...

Thank you all. You have given me a lot to think about. I have come to the conclusion that the position she has put me in is not fair. I should not have to make this choice for her. When we get time this weekend, I'm going to talk to her. I want to let her know that 1. It isn't fair for...

I know that you are probably right. I SHOULD leave. I really should. She has put, and is continuing to put me through so much heartache. The problem with that is that I love her. I love her more than I have loved anyone else apart from my son. On top of that, even though she acts out, I...

If it didn't affect anyone else in any way, I would want to have it just be the two of us. But it doesn't just affect me. There are three people to consider in this situation, not to mention our two kids. (we each had one before we got together). My feelings could potentially be different...

I really need help working through some things. My fiance (a 33 year old woman) and I (a 34 year old woman) have been together for almost 3 years. In that time, there have been 3 separate instances of indiscretion on my fiance's part, all with the same guy. Each time I forgave (but did not...

I guess it's not so much about him following the ground rules as much as it would be hard knowing that she is with someone that doesn't respect us. You are right. I haven't healed yet. I just found out about the two of them less than a week ago. I know it's clouding my judgement, and I need to...

New, unsure and looking for advice My name is Jamie. I am a 35 year old transsexual woman and have been in a relationship with another woman for the past 3 years. She proposed a few months after we started dating but we have yet to actually get married. My hesitation comes from our history...