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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    re gala girl I had been as direct as I could without him getting mad or defensive. He would say "I don't know why you think that" when I would express concern over our relationship or how he was feeling towards me. I didn't have any foundation and just my instincts and he would logic them away...
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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    response to magdlyn 2 Actually we only knew each other a few weeks. He was homeless and I didn't want him to freeze in the weather that was fastly approaching. He wasn't very open about things of his previous lifestyle and I made him get tested before I would do anything. Drove him there...
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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    response magdlyn Hey there Magdlyn! Don't even worry about saying excuse me, that is actually what he is - a coward. ((plus i cuss like a sailor irl so it's no problem lol)) I had been trying to avoid broadcasting my suspicions because he had kept reassuring me, kissing me deeply and holding...
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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    the other shoe dropped Well my instincts were right on the money. The boyfriend sent me a text he didn't mean for me to see that was clearly for another partner, but refused to admit to it. I went and picked up a thing from him and reassured him that it was okay to want to be monogamous but...
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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    re: beccas reply Becca, that is something I had not thought about! I had not thought of things outside that type of mindset and having you point it out is very comforting and thought provoking. That actually helps a lot. Thank you for pointing it out. I'm going to read up on that a bit. ♥
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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    re:Magdlyn's reply :) Thank you, so much, for your reply. It helps to see encouragement and kindness. I tried to talk to a couple of friends and both gave me a various reply of 'you have a husband, why are you upset?' It is much more heartening to see replies from people who understand. ♥ I...
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    One partner stays, the other goes - but isn't gone?

    So I am new to this forum. Last night one of my live in partners left to stay with his parents to help them out with a financial thing. ((Or so he says, at this point I am not involved in anything with his family because I entered his life as a 'married person' so there would be a lot of...
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