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Now I remember why I don't do forums much anymore, everything gets picked apart to the bare bones... So please guys, quit picking apart every word that I've said regarding my situation since I did not ask for it. I only used my situation as the backdrop since that's how it came up. My...

It's a couples bucket list. Not just me. Stuff for both of us to do together. Sure, I can do stuff alone, that's great. I can have an extremely independent streak in me at times. But there are things that I want that is a shared experience, that's the entire point. Sure, I can try and find...

My exposure from poly stemmed from my ex. He told me on our first date that he was poly. I had heard of it before, and was okay with it. After a few months of dating, I decided to be open to it myself and keep the option open of having other partners for myself. My ex broke up with me after a...

I think this is the right place for this since it's an idea for discussion of sorts, but move it if you see fit mods. So in the midst of really talking and trying to define how we're going to handle poly, I voiced a major fear of mine to my boyfriend. I have always had this passion for travel...

Mysterious Skies - ATB

I don't miss Washington, just wasn't my style. Too crowded, too rainy, not my type of people where I was living (Spanaway, which is basically part of Tacoma). I've found Montana more agreeable, like a second home to Oregon :) Naw, never heard of the March Forth Marching Band. Oregon has so many...

He's always going through all sorts of scenarios in his head. He hates unknown factors and not having everything planned. A control freak without being a control freak. It plagues his mind, but doesn't manifest himself otherwise. It's a blessing and a curse at times, but I still love him...

I had him buckle down last night and have a serious talk about a lot of things. I think that all in all it's turned out pretty positive. Hammered out some agreements if you will, even if some things seemed like pulling teeth... it's hard to get him to agree with things sometimes because it...

Mind you when he said shattered we were in the middle of a heated arguement. He's a very passionate person, so strong words can get thrown out there in heated discussions, but can get over a lot of things quickly. Mad today, okay tomorrow. It's more shattered as in he's upset but he's not going...

He's somewhat of an optimist. In his vision of it, everybody loves everybody and is a willing participant. And in his mind, if it pleases your partner, you should get enjoyment out of it as well because it makes them happy and feel good. If I ever wanted a threesome with another guy, he says he...

No big deal honestly, it was just an idealistic idea that i had. If I don't feel I've achieved my base level by then, I just continue to work on myself. Nothing is ever perfect and requires time and effort. I'm not jumping into it over an idealistic idea. It would be nice to feel ready by then...

Honestly, that may be part of my ACOA damage talking right there. I can see my, "Everything is my fault" coming out a bit in that. I tend to not care enough about myself and have a hard time standing up for myself, so it probably wasn't a good question to throw out. The funny thing is, when we...

I'm new here, this my first post outside of my intro thread. So hello :) I've come seeking some insight or advice. We're completely crazy about each other, but my partner and I have had our issues as a couple. Our first 6 months or so together in 2014 were pure bliss. Lots of travel, sex and...

Hello there everybody. I'm sort of new, sort of not to poly. I've mainly come here for some advice, but this is not the place for it obviously, so here's more about me... I've dabbled in poly a bit, and got with my current partner with poly as sort of an open option since he's done a little bit...