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  1. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Yes, nycindie thank you, that would be greatly appreciated. Please lock the thread. :) Just for closure, want anyone reading this to know that we have been brought much closer together through this ordeal and she's continuing her trip and starting to be flirty with guys again. The response from...
  2. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Sorry, none of this ^ is relevant and I kind of regret making the initial post so I'm not going to answer. Thanks.
  3. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I don't see how this dialogue would help anyone who needs information on anger management or typical dealing with demands situations, but ok.
  4. classycaveman

    Hey sweetie! Welcome to the forum. :)

    Hey sweetie! Welcome to the forum. :)
  5. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I had a very positive chat with travelgirl (M) last night. I think we've mostly sorted things out at this point. Thank you all for your perspectives and your love and support. This thread has served it's purpose, which was to help us understand what was going on. Now I get what you meant...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I was definitely in shock. I can tell because it's wearing off. It's painfully obvious to me now that my post shouldn't have been about whether it was ok for me to have sex with C. My post should have been about how I can help my partner. Someone (I forget who) suggested that neither of us...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Actually I think I should have lied. I would have told her the truth eventually but it would have been easier for me to support her if I'd temporarily lied.
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    She says it doesn't make sense that I could enjoy myself knowing what she was going through.
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I had told her i'd left C's place late and high, and she said that she was a bit surprised I would chill for three hours and get high after finding out she'd experienced the worst trauma of her life, and then she put two and two together and asked if we'd had sex. And I told her the truth.
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    oh crap... I sent her a long message earlier and I think I dumped in a couple times. :( Thanks for those links, Galagirl.
  11. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Well to add to her troubles the guy she was with (and his friend) have seemingly disappeared and she doesn't know what happened to them. They were going to stay with her the next couple days to keep her company. So she's tasked me with dealing with our issue and finding a...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Well the thing is I wasn't seeking it, it was right there. That had been the plan. I think I was in a bit of shock. It didn't seem real, and I was kind of confused as to how this had happened to her. I mean, It's not the kind of message you're expecting to read.
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Ha! By the time she's home we'll have been apart for 2 months. You'd better believe there will be flowers. And chocolate, and dinner, and anything else she'll let me give her. :)
  14. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I promise it's not a joke. Believe me, I wish it wasn't real. I'm in danger of losing the best relationship I've ever been a part of.
  15. classycaveman

    Did I make the wrong choice?

    So, my girlfriend M is currently travelling in South America. A couple nights ago she was assaulted. A man got on top of her while she was asleep in bed, next to another guy. She scared him away but he came back at least once before morning. The next night, while I was at C's house (a girl...
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    Physical descriptions

    5'10", 170 lbs, blue eyes, dark blond hair, slim athletic build, If there's a classy way to wear jeans and tshirts, that's me. I've been growing my hair out for about two years now. A lot of people tell me I look like Andy Gibb.
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    What you listening to Now :

    PJ Harvey - To Bring You My Love. I am about 8 CDs away from finally getting my entire music collection onto my new Macbook!
  18. classycaveman

    Empathy test

    I got a 35. There's no way that's right. I cry watching Extreme Home Makeover all the time.
  19. classycaveman

    Is male sex drive a myth???

    This sounds plausible. I was thinking the same thing a few hours after I finished my previous post.
  20. classycaveman

    Is male sex drive a myth???

    Allow me to bring things back to sex drive... First off, I'll address a few things from the original post. These are suggestions and guesses, they may not all make sense in every situation, but each one is true at least some of the time. I would guess that more men than women would prefer...
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