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Honestly while 3 way would be fun we both understand that may not be something he is interested in. I certainly don't expect him to jump in the sack because I makes a startling confession of feelings. As others have said he could not even be interested in me like that but ready to bang H's...

While I understand where you are coming from I think it would be almost completely impossible to broach the subject without him jumping to some pretty obvious and likely correct conclusions.

I don't think you understand the situation. We have always been monogamous. Friend has gotten very close to both of us and so we started talking about what that meant for us. Now we want to talk to our friend about our feelings. How is that anything like what you described?

Thanks for your input Leetah, I do appreciate it. I see what you are saying but I have known D for several years and while it started with a crush things have been fairly well tempered with time. Things definitely started with a crush but that was about 5 years ago I long since pushed that down...

This is why we have been taking things verrrrryyy slowly. My problem is my desire to rush things. This is definitely something I understand. We are already all very close with almost weekly cuddling and hanging out several times a week. The question is how to I take this, so far organic...

lots of talking has taken place. We are a fairly cautious couple. H knows I am attracted to D and I know he is as well. the biggest unknown in all of this is D. We are both kinda crazy for him but have been holding off on telling him because we don't want to scare him off. telling a new...

You are right of course, I never had any intention to move forward or talk to D without first talking to and clearing things with H. In fact he just got home and we talked and things are much more clear. Actually with that talk we are going to be talking to D very soon.

My first post here was about how me and my partner (H) were talking about opening things up to a possible poly-fi triad with a friend (D) we have both grown fairly close to. I hadn't really considered any relationship other than the relationship I was currently in with my partner. I had noticed...

Yeah there will be no moving around for a while. Me and my bf are actually looking at buying a house right now though and I have started looking for a house with another bedroom just in case the need arises in the distant future. Friend is currently on a lease for at least another 9 months and...

Honestly I love the idea, I'm scared of the changes that can take place in my life from taking on the new and unknown. I'm trying to mitigate as much risk as possible by learning what I can before the actual shoe drops and we actually get to the point where things need to be defined and hashed...

I understand and appreciate what you are trying to say, I was just being a smartass. I have since had my coffee and am much better behaved.

Yes all of this is what I mean. Gimme a break buddy it is is still way to early in the morning.

Well we are pretty certain that is already the case as I have known him for several years and worked with him for 3. Me and friend definitely have a strong friendship, but there was definitely and immediate connection between friends and boyfriend. Sorry I was trying to do exactly that by...

So me and my boyfriend (I'm a bi male he is gay) started hanging out with a friend of mine we are in our early 30s he is mid 20s. He only recently came out as bi but I have been friends with him for about 5 years and I always kinda knew he wasn't straight. When he came out my boyfriend and I had...