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Thank you all.. I've had time to think quite deeply about all of this and I'm glad to confirm that sex with husband or lack of it happening can be a deal breaker. I felt like it was selfish of me to put that above keeping it all together for my kids. So I've started putting plans into place to...

I do realise this is a poly forum and our situation is not.. but you guys have great advice... it has been good to read about couples in a poly relationship and consider whether perhaps our renegotiations should explore this idea. I can see already that I'm never going to be any good at hook ups...

Thank you magdlyn, You are absolutely spot on with everything you've said. Perhaps 40 days will give me a clearer answer for what I want with my husband - at the moment I'm torn between trying harder or just leaving. We are off on a family holiday to bali on monday so this may help. Actually...

Thanks for the constructive advice.. it has really helped give me a lot to think about and discuss with my husband. Very helpful group of people. Xx

Kevin T - both men were made very clear that I'm married, we are trying an open relationship, I'm looking for no strings attached experiences and nothing more. The work colleague did not tell his wife. She read some messages on his phone and he lied about it to her - said that we kissed.. once...

I have discovered for myself... I'm not interested in having sex with someone if there's not an attraction. Therefore if im attracted to someone enough to sleep with them then there's an emotional connection. However thats not what hubby and I agreed on. It was "Just sex" outside of our...

Also I realise i didn't reply to every point made here but I did read and consider all of it. There's a lot there that I/we hadn't considered before. The idea my husband and i had was to have sexual experiences with others, not relationships with others. Ideally I would like to be able to...

Thank you for the advice i really appreciate it. I'm not quite sure why I've kept things from my husband. I think that despite our agreement theres a part of me that expects him to be upset with me. Possibly because of the emotional component of the other men. The reason I'm uneasy about what...

So I am in a pickle.... hi guys first post here. I need advice.. quite badly. I've been married for 12 years. Happily for around the first 10 years of that. We have 2 children. We both live busy lives working and caring for the kids. We lost the spark in our marriage somewhere along the way...