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  1. Clirkus

    Polyamorous and demisexual?

    I’m also demisexual! I don’t generally describe myself as polyamorous because I’m not commited to a lifetime of nonmonagany. Personally I can see myself happy and fulfilled in either a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship (I’m currently in a triad with my boyfriend and girlfriend). I am a...
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    How do you feel secure in non-hierarchical relationships?

    ^^^ I agree with this one-hundred-percent. You ought to talk about your feelings to your “main” partner, as you put it, so you can both have a solid understanding of your relationship with each other and where it’s at. I’m also new to poly but I’ll share my experience. I’m in a closed triad...
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    Triad: How Can I Be More Intimate With My Girlfriend?

    Thanks! I really feel like we are on the right track. I’m glad I found this forum because even though it’s not an issue or anything I don’t have anyone in my immediate circle with any sort of poly relationship experience and it just feels good to talk about what’s on my mind regarding my...
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    Coming out as poly

    I don’t think I’ve really “come out” to anyone since my triad relationship became official. I never identified as poly before, but most of our friends know and are cool with it. I’ve never had anyone react badly toward it anyway. However, my roommate (childhood friend of mine) doesn’t know...
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    Triad: How Can I Be More Intimate With My Girlfriend?

    I agree, and I think that is the case with us. We just need more time and more colmunication. Like I said, it’s not something that worries me. We have amazing emotional intimacy, and sometimes we stay up all night talking. We cuddle a lot and are otherwise very physically affectionate with each...
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    Moments in Poly

    A cute moment I had last week was when our boyfriend stayed overnight (gf and I are roommates). My bed is the biggest (full size) so we fell asleep together. Gf often gets up in the middle of the night to sleep in her own bed because she’s a hot sleeper and cramming into a full size bed with two...
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    Triad: How Can I Be More Intimate With My Girlfriend?

    I think you should go back and reread my original post because it seems like you weren’t paying attention the first time. This thread is essentially about my inexperience with other women, and I’m asking for insight from others based on their experiences. Right now our relationship (all three of...
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    Triad: How Can I Be More Intimate With My Girlfriend?

    I agree, a lot of this will probably be resolved via communication. It is awkward, and not a subject that comes up in conversation naturally. We actually are planning to go on a one-on-one date sometime in the near future. We’re both of the mindset I think that we’d like to let our relationship...
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    Triad: How Can I Be More Intimate With My Girlfriend?

    Calle DANONE No, we’re closed and not interested in changing that. Experimenting with people outside of our relationship isn’t something we’ll open up about anytime soon, if ever.
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    Triad: How Can I Be More Intimate With My Girlfriend?

    I’m a female in a triad relationship with a man and a woman. The beginning of our relationship was formed by the three of us together and we’ve always placed a strong emphasis on equality, meaning that we want to be as equally involved with each other as individuals as we are all together. In...
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    One out of Three trying to learn more

    Thank you!
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    One out of Three trying to learn more

    Actually we formed the relationship all together. I was close with both of them before they met and everything just kind of clicked when we were all together so we decided to make our relationship officially a triad. Thank you for the advice and resources Kevin, I have already read the...
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    One out of Three trying to learn more

    Hey, so a little about me. I’m a 22 year old woman in a closed triad relationship with two other people (boyfriend and girlfriend, respectively). We’ve been together for a little over two months and a poly relationship is very new to all of us. Still, we care a lot about each other and want it...
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