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  1. MonoVCPHG

    Disregard all my previous posts. People change to suit their own wants and desires. Never say...

    Disregard all my previous posts. People change to suit their own wants and desires. Never say forever or never. Want a true example of a fully functioning mono poly relationship where the mono is totally cool with new partners being added? Keep looking because I have yet to meet or be one...
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    Having the strength to do what’s right

    I find myself reading this post again. I'm looking for answers internally, but have already answered the same questions. I did it in black and white. What will be the measure of who I am, based on what l've learned? Will it be doing as l have always said l would, based on who l was? Or will l...
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    Redpepper's journey

    You know how to pick nice people to bring into your life, Lilo. :) Love you!
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    Welcome to the forum and I think it's great you are so open! Great pics :)

    Welcome to the forum and I think it's great you are so open! Great pics :)
  5. MonoVCPHG

    Motorcycles anyone?

    Thanks, I'll be honest though, I sit 23 inches off the road and there is no give in this bike - every bump radiates through my spine if I'm not ready for it.... AND I wouldn't have it any other way LOL! That new bike looks like a street brawler..flat out mean and powerful. Scratch away!
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    You're always welcome :D
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Simple happy things This past weekend Redpepper's hubby had his birthday party. We all pitched in throughout the night to make sure our friends and family were looked after and it truned out great! Derby spent the night with Redpepper in her room and I "fell asleep" with my earbuds in and...
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    Motorcycles anyone?

    Very nice ride plyFM!
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    Motorcycles anyone?

    Luckily I live in one of the only Canadian spots where you can comfortably ride all year long. BIking is spiritual thing for me. I don't care how long the ride or where it takes me. It's about how I feel, not what I see :) And here is my girlfriend LOL!
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    Redpepper's journey

    He's not just lovely, he's my role model! ;)
  11. MonoVCPHG

    Is hierarchy problematic or just fine?

    Spell check exists as well but apparently I haven't figured that out yet :-P
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    Is hierarchy problematic or just fine?

    Impact across a broader spectrum creates varying levels of individual importance. This creates a natural hierarchy . In the case where a person is a 'single poly' for lack of a better term, and basically has the same level of involvement with multiple partners then I would imagine their...
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    sexual dysfunction with new partners

    I'm with Dinged on this. The more connected you are the more your body will respond, most likely. At least that is my experience. Also, the more times you are with a partner, the more your levels of comfort and 'staying power' should increase.
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    Monogamous in a Polyamorous relationship

    Wow. This is an old post but I'm glad there is still value in it :-) you are welcome!
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    Redpepper's journey

    :) nice to have you home Lilo...I missed you. XOXXOOX I love you. Your men hung out and had a good time!
  16. MonoVCPHG

    Primary/Secondary: Merged Threads, General Discussion / Debate

    I always find the distress brought on by the term primary or secondary confusing. I also always say the same thing; not all relationships have the same impact on a persons life. In fact there is almost always one that has more. That is the primary or central relationship in my opinion." There...
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    Jealousy, Envy, Insecurity, etc.: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I like your attitude! I often wonder how people could relate in person..I bet we'd make great dance partners...once I had a few drinks...not that I dance better - I just think I can ;)
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    Still Monogamus

    He doesn't have to "be" poly to accept you being so. He might actually be monogamous but that doesn't mean it can't work. Wording can make all the difference when trying to open up your relationship. Some triggers can build disproportionately high walls if you don't pick your language carefully...
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    Jealousy, Envy, Insecurity, etc.: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Let's not NYC, we suck at that:o I'll just leave my comments at that and carry on.
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    Jealousy, Envy, Insecurity, etc.: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Not sure if you are referring to me projecting or the article? Not here to argue the brain mapping science my friend..there are other references but who needs to beat a dead horse. Just adding my perspective and opinion based on science that I didn't create or project. Even animals exhibit...
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