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    Effective communication

    She told me occasional group sex, and brought me to one of the events on our 5th date. It was not a 7:2 GB. Also, the other girl didn't show up when she did it.. The event she brought me to, we went together, and it was 6M 6F with different rooms etc. You had the opportunity for privacy, and it...
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    Let me clear one thing up. I told her that I was supportive of her 7:2 GB. I told her I wanted her to have it. I was supportive from day one. But as the days progressed and the visions went in my head etc, I got emotional. Each day I would say I was a little less comfortable, however I wanted...
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    Yes this is true. I only started becoming truly comfortable with her in the last month or so. So I was experiencing a lot of emotions of NRE, and then getting attachment anxiety over it. I don't understand your question. I've been having sex the whole time. I started with taking Viagra for the...
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    Thanks everyone. We broke up. I told her I felt rushed and that I was sad she was doing it. She told me I was giving her misleading vibes, because I was literally telling her I wanted her to enjoy herself. I did actually say this, but I clarified after that while I wanted this for her, it was...
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    She did recently tell me that doing this was not a deal breaker for her. She has still stopped responding to me though, I think she is emotionally exhausted. I think I will take a break too, as I should focus on other things as you say and not let this relationship run my life. Thanks for your...
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    Effective communication

    Also, why is navigating this such a roller coaster? Is this normal? Or are we just distinctively incompatible? I am booking us in for couples counselling so we can discuss communication. But I don't know if this is normal, or whether we are trying too hard to make something work that isn't working.
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    I mean I understand what you are saying, but it doesn't make me feel any better. She is clearly getting what she wants, but I am losing something in the process. I am not sexually compatible with her preferences. I have to take breaks to allow my attraction to grow again. I am hurt over the loss...
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    Yes she is very great, and yes it's worth dealing with. I am just upset about it. I am not sure how I am going to handle it. I don't feel like it's compatible with my own sexual preferences. I am also deeply connected to her on an intimate level and I am sad about losing it. Maybe she isn't...
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    Effective communication

    So I am in this relationship but we seem to be having communications issues. Basically, I am mostly monogamous. However, I am not completely opposed to open sexual activity and light poly on odd occasions. I just don't want it to be too heavily involved with my life. Anyways, when I met my gf...
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    New to this lifestyle

    So I have been monogamous for my entire life. I have been in a monogamous marriage for several years now as well. However a few months ago my wife said she fern okke our relationship was lacking and she wanted to try a little more. She wanted to try polyamory. I am quite busy with work, our...
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