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Hi CR! I'm pretty new to all of this myself, having started exploring the concept of polyamory in earnest maybe a couple of weeks ago. As such I don't think I'm exactly experienced in poly stuff, but something in what you said is ringing with my own thoughts of the past week so I'll try weigh...

@Galagirl This bucket metaphor was super effective! It certainly clarifies some things for me, and I think it will even make a very valuable basis for some of mine and my partner's future conversations. Thank you!

Wow, thanks for the links on the other thread, Kevin! I got some serious homework to do now. :) And thank you for this warm welcome!

Thanks GalaGirl for the response. Definitely some food for thought there about info-sharing on my side, thank you! At this point I should mention, he's working extremely hard to find a mindset that's both comfortable for him and sustainable for us. Definitely not a one-sided conversation as we...

This sounds a little like some of the hypotheticals we've been airing, such as using nicknames for partners to help avoid obsessing. My partner's been moving towards the idea that this could work, so I'm glad to hear it affirmed by someone else. And thanks for the reply. :)

Hey folks. So I recently ended a mono relationship that had opened up for a couple of years. As things ended, I discovered that physical jealousy was far less of an issue for me than for my partner. Around the same time I fell in love very suddenly with a new partner who is much more...

Hi all, So glad to have found this forum which looks super helpful and approachable. I'm a 26yo Irish guy, big into games, music, books, etc. I'm just starting a new mono/poly relationship at the same time as I'm becoming aware of my poly side, so will be posting in the advice forum very soon...