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Thanks for the post! How long have we been open? I have realized that he was poly for about four or five years. He has been so patient and caring about my needs, and didn't want to upset me, so he didn't really express it until he wanted to make a relationship sexual. How many girlfriends...

I have two questions. How do I let go of my primary so he can be who he wants to be? How do you find a poly relationship? We've been married for almost 17 years. We married young, ages 19 and 21. I want to be less caring about his interactions with his girlfriends. I want to be less...

I've thought of this but never asked When I read the title of this post, I thought it was rather interesting. My husband seldom wears his and I usually do. I feel like I should wear it because it would feel like lying not to have it on. This is just my preference, but I also feel that its...

Empathetic I scored a 51 on this test. I was a bit surprised, I feel so selfish most of the time. Maybe I thought I was answering these questions honestly but this score shocked me. My husband and I have been poly for about 6 years and we are thinking about closing things back up to just the...

Hello there. I got your message about the poly group in Columbus. :) I am going to check it out soon.

Fred, I felt the same way when my husband started to see other people. I can honestly say that the idea did not appeal to me to find someone else either. I am so sorry that it didn't. For me having someone else to support me through the times that my husband was with his girlfriends would...

Wow! My Husband and I are going through some of the same things right now. My Husband has a girlfriend and they do not have sex due to her boyfriend not allowing it. However, my husband and his girlfriend (? if thats what you call her) are very close emotionally she talks to my husband more...

I feel the same way. Being poly isnt something that a lot of people talk about. Thanks for sharing. :)

Its nice to hear that it was painless. :) Im glad it was natural for the two of you. I will look forward to hearing from you and I like the name.

New to This Sage, I am sorry that you are struggling as well. But, can I say it feels really good to know that there are other people like me? I am coming to terms with a lot. I want to be giving and my latest explosion did result with me realizing that I need to ask for his reassurance that...

I am fairly new to the lifestyle. I am reading a book and trying to gather information. I have been married for almost 15 years. My husband and I have fairly recently opened up our relationship. I am quite shy and do not meet people as easily as he does and I am finding this very nerve...