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Originally my husband/primary asked to be allowed to speak with anyone that I wanted to meet up with before meeting them. I had asked him to let me think it over before giving him an answer. It did not set right with me. I didn't know if I was just being selfish and if I was the one in the wrong...

Thank you all for your input! It felt strange to me too. We were able to talk through it and the coffee date happened yesterday without any vetting. Lol. It went wonderfully too. Now crossing my fingers for a call back for a second date! Oh and primary was actually excited to hear how the date...

Has anyone had their primary talk with someone they are interested in meeting/dating before meeting in person? For example... You meet someone online and they want to take you out to coffee. Do you allow your primary to talk with them before to get a feel of the situation before you meet the...

Marcus, You are very right. Each relationship brings something special into the picture and is unique in it's own way. A little update on this situation....No longer a situation... My husband opened up and our communication and trust has been the best it has been in 9 years. Things are...

Magdlyn, I will admit, I had thought about pulling back all together. As much as I care about this new relationship, I can't give him what he ultimately deserves in a relationship as my primary was dealing with their own issues with it. I did mention this to my husband and he got upset that I...

The only things that I can answer is that there is no chance of me leaving him. I fought to be with him for 4 years before we got together and we are coming up on 14 years since I first fell in love with him. That mixed with the fact that this is not something I feel we can not work through and...

He is trying to work on his feelings. He also has fears of me finding someone "better" than him and me leaving him. Also, he is a bit jealous of me being sexual with anyone else because he is not as sexually experienced as my new romance. Any information that we both can read would be...

There are a few new ones including...no affection until HE is ok with it (no kissing, hugs, etc.) and restrictions on those that are "off limits" in our relationships. His reasoning for wanting to change the first is that he is jealous and does not want to think about this new relationship...

My husband and I are new to polyamory. We just started being open to new relationships and established what we want that to look like. I had approached him with two long term friends that I was interested in exploring our friendship further. He initially was open and ok with both of them and...

We are mostly concerned with my ex-husband. I have a child with him and in the past he has tried to use my sexual preferences against me in court to try to take her away. We do not really have the choice to have them in our life. At least for the next 7 years.

Hello everyone! My husband and I are new to polyamory and really trying to learn what we can before "jumping in." We just recently started looking into everything. Also, has anyone been able to carry on this lifestyle while not being "out" to family and friends? There are some people in our...