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Thank you all! KevinT, thank you for the links. I had read some before but a few were new and helpful. ElMango, I know that I am being irrational. I am expecting her to leave like my wife did. But my marriage was over before the wife got a BF, I just couldn't face it. I am trying really hard...

I am coming into poly because of my GF. I am open to learning how it all works and am trying to be supportive. However, while she and I HAVE discussed her new BF, it wasn't to give my "approval". It was because this is the first relationship she has been in since we've been together and she...

You are right! Thank you! My first marriage ended as my wife found a BF. He was the catalyst for us to realize we were over. I probably am just afraid my GF will leave too, now that she has found a BF.

I understand what NRE (mostly) is but what kind of negative consequences is the NRE having on YOUR relationship? I am thinking about how my GF is all giddy now because she has J. It makes her happy and she's even more fun to be around now. As long as she doesn't ignore me, I like seeing her...

Hello, Avoidant. I am very new to all of this myself so I am not one to give much advice but I wanted to say I am sorry you are in the place you are. I don't really know that much about being poly -- it's why I am here (former swinger with the ex, GF has a new BF and I'm trying to be...

Did you say HE has a partner? But is putting restrictions on your relationships? Did I read that correctly?

HI. I'm new here but I would say no. I trust GF to make the right choices. I might meet him if she asked, but would not do so otherwise.

Hi. My name is Marcus and I am very grateful to have found this group. I have been in a relationship with my GF for 3 years now. She told me when we met that she liked to have multiple relationships which sounded fine by me as I have not ever exactly been monogamous. But neither of us has dated...

Hi. My name is Marcus and I am very grateful to have found this group. I have been in a relationship with my GF for 3 years now. She told me when we met that she liked to have mulitple relationships which sounded fine by me as I have not ever exactly been monogamous. But neither of us has dated...