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Can you be in love with two people at once? This question came up mostly with my fear of losing her in all of this... It's not a social norm to be in love with two people at once. So those already in a poly relationship maybe you can explain how it is possible to be in love with two people...

So we decided yesterday after she had a long talk with B that we would open up our relationship. I guess B had previously discussed an open with his wife but he realized he didn't want one with her because he wanted out of the marriage. They didn't do anything aside from kissing goodbye when he...

Thank you so much for your honesty... I hadn't considered that's exactly what were doing and how she probably feels. That we are putting our relationship on this pedestal and just constantly putting off the actual decision portion of going open or staying closed. I can tell that part is...

So we talked last night. B stayed the night after he had helped us pack all day and night until 0300. I tried telling her how I was feeling about everything and that I felt jealous about their flirting. She said they haven't been acting any differently than before when we even brought up the...

Slow poly I appreciate the response and feedback. I guess what I'm struggling with the most about all of this is it seems like she really wants this. I was the one who brought up the idea with the guy asking if she's ever considered it and she said she never did until I mentioned it but now...

I do agree with Kevin it does seem like she is already pretty content on a open relationship. Her reaction to me suggesting we put it off was of concern. She also said if we put this on the back burner and 6 months or 1yr from now if she is pregnant or a new horn baby it's not going to be ideal...

Update I got home and talked to her in the shower about how I'm half in and half out with a lot of I don't knows so we should maybe put it on the back burner. I restated my concerns with it being a Co worker. I had former skeletons in my closet where I secretly texted a coworker of hers without...

I appreciate all the input and feedback so far So for those wondering why don't we just push back the wedding that's not an option. Her family obviously is not in the know and we booked a very expensive venue wedding invites already sent out it's 4 months away we'd lose our 12k deposit on the...

Update. We were lying in bed tonight and Friday was brl brought up my girl (We'll call her Z) discussed mostly the agenda for that day with this guy well call (B) I brought up discussing the Parameters for that day. I told her obviously chemistry could happen since they could be alone at our...

In response to Gala: How about on your end? Did you ASK her to spend your day off together? Or just assume that whenever you both have the day off on the same day, it's time spent together as a couple? And are annoyed she made other hang out plans that day? It was assumed. Then he texted her...

For some reason whenever I quote replies they take forever to post. Sorry if this is a double post but my replies aren't showing up. I'll try to respond to El and then Gala: In response to El: Quote: At the same time, analyze these feelings; why would it be awkward for him to be there if...

We haven't discussed the baggage that would come with that type of scenario. I do know I've mentioned how at first I was firmly against it being a Co worker because I didn't want it getting around the department. But she said she'd actually rather it be with him because she has a close...

I had replied earlier but I guess it never posted. El in response to what you asked the details.. I guess it's more me than her feeling awkward with him at our wedding. My feeling is ill feel awkward that the guy she will have possibly slept with by that point is in the audience watching us...

Thanks for reaching out so quickly and provided insight. That's incredible you're able to have that kind of marriage and were monogamous for so long without issues. I spoke with her about that scenario and she said it wouldn't bother her at all but it might be awkward for him being at our...

Forewarning I'm probably going to rant a lot so bear with me. I am new to the open relationship concept and have been doing independent research from reading articles to websites and now I'm hoping to receive more advice/input from those who are in open marriages/relationships themselves. So...