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so sorry, i meant to say asexual. Yes I agree not the best situation but here I am. With dave being not interested most of the activities between Zoe and Jim have happened while I've been out of town so not very often. they haven't been hooking up on a weekly basis or anything, but now that...

Thank you, for taking the time to reply with such excellent information. It has been hard to sort though all my feelings and thoughts so I find it helpful that you ask direct questions to draw it out of me. Sorry for taking so long to be able to answer but it has been a lot of soul searching...

When we were swinging or with our friends there was no impact on my future. Zoe will now have a say in my life through Jim. If he gets transferred for work, for example, Jim wants to make sure she has the option of coming with us. This is a huge change for me and I know I'm not explaining...

Hi Everyone, This week I made the choice for my husband, Jim follow what he wants to do regarding his desire to fully embrace a Poly love style. Initially, Jim and Zoe, his FWB had left me with the decision to move forward or if I couldn't' deal with it they would end their relationship. I...

aZC9Ye You're welcome! I like this, Thank you. This to me is not swinging at all, or it was never like that for us. We made eye contact, we encouraged kissing, cuddling, and spent as much time lounging in bed after sex with other. We have been great friends with other couples and...

Yes that makes total sense! Thank you. Today has been a better day. Not feeling so all over the place. Zoe and i had a talk last night and two things up in conversation. 1. She has been trying to figure out what she did wrong. To me it was i was the fact that i was not able to give consent or...

So I'm getting it. Phew. And it does feel like cheating. They did have my consent to be FWB or play partners in the swinging world. But romantically involved in a relationship we had not gotten there yet. It is possible we would have gotten there without all this crisis as Jim and I...

Yes, now i can see how confusing it is without names! So Sorry. Let me clarify the people and the connections: Jim and I are married. Jim has fallen in love with his friend with benefits, Zoe. Who is also a co-worker Zoe is married to Dave and Dave has given the 'Don't tell, I wont ask, but i...

Hello everyone I'm the female of a marriage of 11 years. We have been swingers together for 9 of them and I was a swinger, in a committed relationship with a woman for a year, and have/had a great take on my sexuality and was empowered by it, before the marriage. I find that I am now in the...