I'm not really sure what point you're trying to make here? When we talked to him about our feelings it was in more words and different phrasing than asking him "out" specifically.
Its not like he's opposed to polyamory, its something we've talked about the general idea of before. Its a bit hard...
Rationally, I know I should start the getting over him phase. Its going to be very difficult since I've loved him for such a long time, but I think you're right. Here's hoping for a pleasant surprise.
Thank you for your insight,
R
Hello! I'm R. I'm mostly looking for some advice on my current situation. My fiance (T) and I are both poly and in love with our best friend, D. We asked him out about a week ago and he hasn't given us any kind of straight answer. I've known D since we were kids and I was kind of just expecting...