Hello! I'm R. I'm mostly looking for some advice on my current situation. My fiance (T) and I are both poly and in love with our best friend, D. We asked him out about a week ago and he hasn't given us any kind of straight answer. I've known D since we were kids and I was kind of just expecting a no, kinda hoping for it even, so that I could start getting over him somehow. But now I'm here without answers and hope that may be false. Any advice?