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Generally speaking, I think you are right. We could, for sure, if that was what we wanted, have a guy over for one night, and then be just fine never seeing him again, or seeing him again if it was great sex, as long as that was the expectation. Johnny and I are not looking for that...

Ostrich's blog is interesting. What an experience. They seem to have dynamics at play that we do not. Hopefully my experience will be a bit different.

Hi @Magdlyn thank you so much for the information. I will check all of this out. Just because I know a few throuple relationships doesn't mean I think they are healthy. One seems good; the other is a mess. We have a guy spending the whole weekend with us this weekend. It's a start. We will see...

@TinCup I overthink stuff. This is the only real discussion forum about polyamorous relationships. So I'm here. It would be more useful to me, of course, if there were more exclusively gay posters here. I find the various terms used interesting. So many. I'll be around here, for sure, even if i...

Thank you.

I know 8 gay married couples. All are open. Two are actually triples. I don't think MMM triads are nearly as rare as the unicorn arrangement. That is a great link. I think much of that does apply to any relationship. The box is something I'll make sure we do not make. I have shared it with my...

Thank you for the help. We are being super mindful here. We are not doing random threesomes. Certainly many gay male couples are "open." In fact, we do not know of one that isn't. (We were it). But being open with some structure is different than trying to share a life with someone together. We...

Not specifically. Smaller, submissive, clean-cut men. My husband does kinda want a twink look, but that isn't set in stone.

My husband and I have decided to seek a third. We have been together for 7 years and married for half of that. We are wonderful together and we love each other more daily, it seems. BUT we are both Tops. We have been completely monogamous for these 7 years. Sex has always been "good," with lots...