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Hi all! First, thank you so much to everyone that replied. Your advice was hard to hear, but necessary. I did what I needed to and followed my instinct. As of a few hours ago, I broke up with my partner. If it's alright, I don't have the spoons to go into details, but the drinking, lying...

I am also trying to be graceful here. How did you take ownership?

Well, I guess because it's so fresh and I've not had the emotional energy to devote to the conversation I want to have - I haven't decided what level of transparency is fair for me to ask for. I want him to have privacy. I also don't want to always wonder if I'm being lied to. I don't feel...

Hi, all. This is probably going to be a long post, sorry in advance. I've been actively practicing polyamory for 6 years. My nesting partner is a first timer. We've been together over a year now, and live together. He's very much a stoic person - he's had a lot of trauma in old relationships...