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My wife is seeing someone in a parallel poly situation. They live about 7.5 hours away unfortunately, but they travel back and forth for weekends occasionally and maintain communication regularly.

We use Gchat (Google Chat). Works great. Here's a sample just from this morning when everyone is working. lol

This sounds like a toxic relationship. Your wife's actions are cavalier and aren't taking your feelings into account. This is clearly not consensual, which is a tenant of polyamory. Make sure your wife understands this is too fast, and you're uncomfortable. She needs to keep her NRE in check...

I'm new here - this response resonates with me. One thing I've often said is polyamory fails when people begin to wear it like an identity or talk about it incessantly. "I feel like I know more long-term-successfully polyamorous people, many of whom are married, offline than I ever do here." I...

I've been polyamorous now for 9 years with 3 partners. We've found it's better to just let people assume than to tell. When people assume, their cognitive dissonance kicks in if they're more conservative, ("there's no way they're all together!") or they'll ask if more open to the idea, at which...

Hi there, I'm BlueClover. The name comes from what my family calls itself, a clover. I am a 40 male with a wife of 14 years, a girlfriend of 9 years and another girlfriend of 3.5 years. I am here because I have no other like-minded people to talk to about our lives and lifestyle and am...