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BlueClover

New member
Hi there,

I'm BlueClover. The name comes from what my family calls itself, a clover.
I am a 40 male with a wife of 14 years, a girlfriend of 9 years and another girlfriend of 3.5 years.

I am here because I have no other like-minded people to talk to about our lives and lifestyle and am looking for a place to share stories and chat about it.

We've been polyamorous even before we knew there was a word to describe it, and are very successful at it and have gotten along fantastic for years.

I hope to be able to talk more about our lives with others. Thanks for having me.
 

Evie

Kaitiaki
Hi BlueClover

You sound sort of like my partner. He's married 25ish years, with long term girlfriends of 12, 8 and 2 years (again, -ish). I'm the 2 year one.

In the early days, I worried a little about last on, first off. But now I'm confident that won't happen.

Feel free to start a blog in that part of the forum. A number of us write there about the somewhat mundanity of life most of the time 😁

Honestly, it would be lovely to see someone else telling their story of simply doing poly very well.
 

kdt26417

Official Greeter
Staff member
Greetings BlueClover,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You seem like a cool person with a clear head on your shoulders; I am sure you will be able to find some like-minded people here, with whom to discuss your lives and lifestyle. Just keep posting here and there, people will respond. Enjoy your stay on our forum!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 

GalaGirl

Well-known member
Welcome!

Nice to see a poly family that is doing well. I like that "clover" description. :)

Galagirl
 

Al99

Well-known member
Welcome! Sounds like a happy poly family. :)

Do your partners have other partners as well?
 

BlueClover

New member
Welcome! Sounds like a happy poly family. :)

Do your partners have other partners as well?
My wife is seeing someone in a parallel poly situation. They live about 7.5 hours away unfortunately, but they travel back and forth for weekends occasionally and maintain communication regularly.
 

kdt26417

Official Greeter
Staff member
LDR's are rough, I can sympathize with that. Glad she is maintaining a connection with them.
 
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