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    How to keep focus on the primary relationship while nre.

    Yes this person i was dating just couldn't imagine anything else than casual sex or commited relationship. For me, there is a lot in between we could have enjoyed. But he didn't see it.
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    How to keep focus on the primary relationship while nre.

    It's painful. In the end it's crazy that 2 people liking each other is really not enough to build something. I guess it's true in any relationship. But polyamory definitely brings its own layer of complexity.
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    How to keep focus on the primary relationship while nre.

    Thank you so much everybody for your answers. Unfortunately it seem that i am not gonna get to do this experience just yet. I guess polyamory just isn't for everybody. Second time it happens to me. That someone likes me but can't deal with the fact that i am already in a relationship. I guess...
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    How to keep focus on the primary relationship while nre.

    Thank you so much to all of you for those so valuable insights! It is really strange because i have been excited to have this for so long. And now that it might happen i am also scared. I know myself and i can tend to be very intense. But i really do not want to loose my primary, my partner and...
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    How to keep focus on the primary relationship while nre.

    Hey everybody, One simple question for the ones of you that experienced NRE while being in a long term primary relationship. How do you keep the focus on your primary? How do you not got nuts and let your feelings take the better of you? How does it affect positively or negatively your...
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    Want a poly and a little bit lost

    hey you all, Sorry for the late answer I needed time to digest a couple of things! First of all @GalaGirl, once again you really nailed it! I read your message and couldn't agree more with all your points! It changed everything to read your words and has really be a turning point in the issue...
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    Want a poly and a little bit lost

    It definitely does feel unique, but your answer helps me to believe in something future. I came home tonight and decided to start reading about how to transition into a polyamory relationship. At this point it is the only thing that makes me feel like I can still develop into who I am. I...
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    Want a poly and a little bit lost

    Hey Thanks for your replies! @GalaGirl thank you so much for sending those links. We discussed it with my bf yesterday and decided to forget about the new guy, educate ourselves and try to develop into this in the long run rather than right here, right now. @kdt26417 you are right, it is...
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    Want a poly and a little bit lost

    hey you all, First of, thank you so so much for all your answers! I trully appreciate and it has been actually incredibly helpful! @Magdlyn you are so incredibly right and somehow reading your message made me cry of relief. I cannot explain what happened, to fall so hard for someone I barely...
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    Want a poly and a little bit lost

    Hey everybody, Thanks a lot for reading my post! I am in a 7 years amazing monogamous relationship. Since a couple of month we decided to slowly open it starting with swinging and then kinky parties. It has been going great, bringing a lot of joy and trust into our couple. We feel closer...
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